With all the dating apps out there just wondered which ones you guys are using or enjoy using the most to find a girl to "chill" with.

I used to use Badoo, but it's changed so much now and the pay wall to see who matched you kinda killed the app for me.

I'm currently exploring other apps.

I've never had luck with dating apps. Did Tinder years ago when it was popular. Tried Hinge a couple months ago with the same result. I tend to do better in person. Are there any you had luck with?

I have already lost confidence in dating apps. On Tinder it's hard to start a conversation with anyone at all. Guys and girls disappear after a short conversation. Or maybe I'm so unlucky, I don't know. I feel like it's more realistic to find someone to meet on Instagram or even on https://onlyfanssigns.com/models/bungabooty, lol. Or even on TikTok. Tinder, Pure, Badoo on the other hand is a real disappointment. I recently found a girl on Tinder giving her ex's girlfriend contacts offering sex. That is, she uses the app for stupid revenge. I don't want to be a part of that.

[ Last edited by  seylen at 30-3-2023 16:23 ]

Girls on Tinder are only there for one night stands. They know it, and now you know it. You probably won't get any matches there unless you happen to be a girl's type... which varies wildly, so just be a more attractive version of yourself.

Hinge is where girls are going for guys to bring back to their parents. They're still going to be really selective, so get over that.

Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don't be unattractive

Have an iPhone... you need to be sending blue bubbles. Also... get a well put together Instagram profile. Fill your main grid with quality photos, and buy 500 likes for each of them. Then buy 30,000 followers. You would be surprised at the difference this makes.

Hinge and tinder for me personally

I've been trying Tinder for a long time. But frankly speaking, it was not a great success. A couple of introductions, once I even slept with someone.

Tinder, mostly. But those are just hookups 70% of the time.

Tinder gave me 4 good experiences. First woman ended up being a great friend for 6 years but she wanted the whole package and I told her after the first date that I wasn’t interested in pursuing that option. We are still friends but she found her golden ticket.

Second success was fun for about 6 months. I would message her when I was in town and we would meet for dinner and “chill”. She eventually ghosted me when she found a local guy to pay the bills. Lol

Third success was an Indo in HK. She was fun but being a real DH led to scheduling issues and then the Covid crap.

Fourth woman was a hot Russian/Kazak that I met for just one night. I would enjoy seeing her again but I have not been back to her country.

Bumble, completely useless. Too many women with babies looking for the long term golden ticket.

What’s Your Price, two experiences. The first girl was a damn gold digger and we barely finished dinner before I lost interest. Second one was ok but we didn’t really click so I moved on. They seem to have a lot of fake profiles on that site. You have to pay to unlock the conversation, and then a chick ghosts you after one message.

Seeking has been good, but it’s expensive. Pulled a freebie from there. I like it because you can select ethnicity as a filter. I prefer Asian and Latina women so most searches I use are for that. All of my dating activity is international.

tinder and hinge if only for hook ups

Filipino Cupid.  I had lined up 2 ladies a week in various cities.  Man, Filipinos are passionate.

Tinder gave me 4 good experiences. First woman ended up being a great friend for 6 years but she wanted the whole package and I told her after the first date that I wasn’t interested in pursuing that option. We are still friends but she found her golden ticket.

Second success was fun for about 6 months. I would message her when I was in town and we would meet for dinner and “chill”. She eventually ghosted me when she found a local guy to pay the bills. Lol

Third success was an Indo in HK. She was fun but being a real DH led to scheduling issues and then the Covid crap.

Fourth woman was a hot Russian/Kazak that I met for just one night. I would enjoy seeing her again but I have not been back to her country.

Bumble, completely useless. Too many women with babies looking for the long term golden ticket.

What’s Your Price, two experiences. The first girl was a damn gold digger and we barely finished dinner before I lost interest. Second one was ok but we didn’t really click so I moved on. They seem to have a lot of fake profiles on that site. You have to pay to unlock the conversation, and then a chick ghosts you after one message.

Seeking has been good, but it’s expensive. Pulled a freebie from there. I like it because you can select ethnicity as a filter. I prefer Asian and Latina women so most searches I use are for that. All of my dating activity is international.

Tinder and sometimes WeChat locations to find females in the same area.

tinder hinge badoo if you only like hook ups

I've had the most success using Tinder and Bumble. Both are great for meeting girls who are looking for a serious relationship. I also think that Tinder is great for finding girls in your city who you might not have met otherwise. It's a great way to break the ice and start a conversation.

Tinder for dates wechat for beds

Personally I have tried Tinder, Bumble. Didnt have any good experience with any of them.
Someone suggested Ashley Madison. But I find that to be too spammy. People reply wanting to meeting in the next 15-30 mins. But then they stop replying when you ask for more details. Seemed very shady to me.

I’ve heard that seeking is rly popping in the US where u can score some absolute gems like college girls looking for some money. But it works in like a sugar baby style in which you pay them for a fuck they call it ppm(pay per meet). And whatever else extra is just up to you like going to dinner and stuff. The website works for South America as well I’ve heard. But obviously the more attractive you are the more matches you get but girls are mainly looking for money so no worries.

I use it in Canada and i agree with everything you said.
You can find very pretty girls  and it's easy to set a meet to have some meal together, talk and have some fun.

My experience is only within the US.
I used to travel for work a lot and Seeking was great to find potentials in cities I frequented.

I do have this to say:

Pool size varies based on city.
Scammers increase with Pool size, so be prepared to do your homework.
Larger cities also have a higher chance for the SB to be a WG.  Some will either out themselves during off-site chat, but usually you can catch hints based on how they phrase things.
Do not communicate over the site, since they definitely monitor the chats and moderator is not consistent.  I got a warning when it was the SB that brought up the term PPM!?
Try to avoid paying up front.

Las Vegas: Some gems, but also scammers and WGs.  First one I met was a scammer and second one I met was a WG who just got out.
LA: Lots of POTs and hidden gems
OC: Same as LC
SF/SJ: A higher percentage of GPS... even for the fugly ones.
Seattle: Ok
SD: Ok

Tips that worked for me.
A. Be up front about what activities you are looking for and don't fall for promises of 'after we get to know each other better'.
B. I always state allowance (the term used in this circle) starts after the sex does.
C. Some ladies won't have sex at the first meet (see B), but if you think it's a possibility, have the first meet near a hotel.  Ideally a hotel restaurant/bar that's decent.
D. Have a Plan B in case the SB flakes on you, especially for the first date.
E. My profile stated I travel for business and was looking for occasional dates, so the SBs I met all knew it wasn't going to be a regular schedule.  Some were okay with once a month or every two months.  I was definitely the side hustle, and I'm find with that.

If you looking for Chinese girls try these ... MOMO, TANTAN and BUMBLE.
Its a numbers game. So the more you try surely 1 will happen.
I hooked a student in Shanghai and until now she still meets me whenever i'm there.