Sounds almost familiar.
Lets set the stage straight:
• NOT a lot of business for her now,
• While risks of having business, and income, dropping to 0 for a while,
So she probably wants to secure …survival for the coming weeks with somebody she knows, that treats her well and she likes to be with.
After 2011, with my Viet (Wanchai bars girl) “friend”, I was thinking about (IF not married, so just brain exercise) offering her a 1 year deal as Full Time LIVE-IN GF, everything taken care of, roof-food-holidays-upgrading her wardrobe-social events with me-building her saving plan and her mission was to …learn English properly (paid by me). It was just a theorical exercise.
End of 2020 / early 2021, as bars were closing at 6pm (i.e. no client), many of those girls were in a bad situation.
I know one (and not the bottom of the range) struck an EXCLUSIVITY DEAL with one of her regular
(I was not a regular but we talked about that anyway) clients…minimizing risks for both while securing some basic surviving income for her.
I did the same with a pair Indonesian + Thai (as they did not want to get vax in April, then it became 141 only for me)
seeing them regularly at lunch time in an hotel, one, the other, then as a pair.
That was very enjoyable and got them to sail through without crazy problems those months.
So Jane maybe looking for a similar deal with you!!
Maybe you should PROACTIVELY ask her FIRST about HER BUDGET, expenses, how much to stay afloat for the coming weeks with ~no business.
THEN ONCE that is established ask her, how much she would want from you per week…while enjoying perks of being your EXCLUSIVE GF
(maybe live in???)…and that of course is NOT their hourly rate.
If that is what she has in mind, you will see very quickly a very accommodating lady (because it proves YOU CARE ABOUT HER),
because it’s like she is giving YOU a FIRST RIGHT OF REFUSAL, testing you.
Then with deal struck, you will enjoy weeks with a very grateful partner.
Waiting to strike a bargain deal with a desperate girl does not make her a good partner in my opinion.
Btw, with my regulars, at HL and Phoenix, when checking the OVERNIGHT price (how long, how much) last year
…after I had looked at the website for many girls what was “Market” prices and standards,
the discussions were very simple and quick.
(Even one LIVE-OUT, not doing overnight, between jealousy of her neighbor and curiosity about me, happily settled fast, and nobody complained after (the one in official position showed me a SAD face
when I told her. Ok will avoid in the future; don't want to see that nice face like that)
Then once that business part is secured, it becomes more like each side going the extra mile trying to please the other!!
With one, when “Overnight” was done, she was always very welcoming if I could sleep for the night with her (obviously I was a good pillow)
without even asking anything (while I would give her a bit of something)
even if at some point during the night LB wanted to check if without any make-up she was as enjoyable as with make-up