Look at the top of the page. you should see this:

dean.gerrard: LogOut | P.M. | Member List | Search | My | Member's CP | Statistics | FAQ

if u go to statistics on the far right next to FAQ there's lots of stuff in there. just learned that most users are on Monday nights from 11-1am. makes sense. shitty Monday at work, need to find an outlet

Whoa! It looks like I've been one of the more active members behind Hunter and SEAJ in terms of posts. I guess It's been a quiet month at work for me. Congrats SEAJ btw. Your posts are always constructive and helpful.

Someone ought to tell Dexter555 that posting on Erotica won't get him any k's. I mean, 555 posts in 30 days??

Just to set the record straight - TwiceAweek, and indeed ALL the Mods here - are just members like you and I and  who have been selected by "Admin" or "SEX141" to volunteer their contribution to the forum.  

And I emphasize the word volunteer as they are NOT getting paid anything and have all along - altruistically - just done their part selflessly to keep order on our board.

SEAJ

Statistics is at the top right hand corner of the page. Click on it and there will be a list of stats you can choose to view. I hope that helps.

is the admin a local HKese owner of this site, or what? I dont think i've seen him posting around at all. and by looking at his number of posts it looks like he's not too active. i've never seen a board with this type of organization before.

this chat is truly Idle.

As a conversation starter, has any one experienced in other regions of China that KTV girls either don't go out or can choose not to go out?  Is the DG or GZ in general different in that they must go out if requested?

As I was drawing some sketches ( a hobby of mine ), a certain WG in China came across
my mind and bestowed me with inspiration. So I just wanted to share a cute WG with everyone.

Initially, I noticed her in a strip of BBS in Shanghai. She was a rare find - a diamond in a lump of coal.
She had a cute face, beautiful hair, long and tanned legs, a slim body with large breasts, just perfect.
She stood out from the other WGs surrounding her. I am glad that I took my time browsing every back alley
because that place was very obscure. I visited her 3 times consecutively in 3 days. She is always cheerful in a
playful mood and was such a GFE. She is also very young! A cute 20 years old ( 1 year older than me ) from Hubei.
We had passionate sex with DFK and tried a lot of different positions. I was her first customer of the day every single time.
Our sessions usually last an hour to an hour and half, depending on my mood for extensions.

I really want to share some photos with everyone, but due to poor lightning and crappy front camera of the IPhone,
she is not looking her best in any of the photos that I have. So I am going to share a sketch that I drew
that is based off her. I could confidently say that the sketch is ~90% accurate to her looks.

So if you can't get real pictures of the HGs or WGs, draw a sketch and post that in your reports instead! LOL jk

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The following only what I know - OR more accurately, what I THINK I know!

Both the Chinese and English forums had MAINLY been created by the owners of the site to "drive" business towards the WG's/Hotel Walk-in gals who are the actual clients/paying advertisers of the site - as a way to drum up interest, promote discussion and just generally serve as an added bonus to such advertisers.

A few years back, there WAS a bit of a hiccup w/the Hong Kong LE and the site was shut down for a while. This site has now been moved and is now domiciled out of Hong Kong - and thus not within easy reach of the Hong Kong authorities. But this does not mean that they do NOT still try, and as such, you WILL notice certain"restrictions" as to what is acceptable and NOT acceptable for posting here.

From his own statements, Admin/SEX141 is actually just a paid employee of the actual owners of the site. He does occasionally post here, but only when things gets too out of whack and he just rides rough-shod over everything/everybody including the Mods!  Thus its actually a good thing that he really does not come on here too much for IMHO, our MODS really already do a fantastic job to keep our forum interesting, informative and lively.

I'd think that this topic -  the organization of this forum - is quite a sensitive matter, legally, administratively etc and the Mods had always been very reluctant to disclose much more than what I had written above. Thus if you don't mind, its probably best if we just leave this topic alone.

We're here to enjoy this forum!!
For the useful information, the fun and games, the camaraderie amongst us members - and NOT to worry about its administration/structure/ownership etc - for these are things which should not be our concern.  
I hope you understand and share my thoughts on this.

SEAJ
typo and punctuation edits

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 29-7-2011 01:40 ]

Makes sense. I don't even remember how i found this site. Is it advertised or anything? No idea how i made it here but sure glad i did =)

Yes - you've been a busy li'l beaver this past month haven't you been?  LOL

And I am glad to see that even though you've been prodigious in your "output" that you have for the most part avoided writing up one-liners, obvious questions, inconsequential/irrelevant posts etc.  Thank you!

IMHO, most of us when we first join here - we are VERY concerned about getting posting credits to get the higher RA to be able to see the pixs!!  
Sorry if I offend anybody - but IMHO, that's just the way it is!!

Once we reach Carnal Conqueror/RA 30 though, pretty well 95% of all pictures here will then be available; but good members - like you xavier - would in the process of getting the first 250 credits, also find out that you actually do enjoy being here - just for the sake of being here!!

Then you just continue posting good posts, sharing and caring, enjoying the camaraderie here - which has now become the Prime consideration when posting; it just becomes second nature!!

So what am I saying??

Well... to newbies - but also to members:

- Be persistent, have a bit of patience, just slog on with writing up reports/posts/relevant comments and just sharing and caring - very soon you'll find out that you're actually posting here NOT just because you need to get the posting credits, you're actually posting just because you're enjoying yourself here!

(But watch out there bro - don't even think of trying to spam the board!!  
That's a sure fire way for you to then NOT enjoy yourself here!!  
LOL)

Just me musing.

SEAJ

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By the by - Just to help you Newbies who may be reading this:
You will want to start your participation here by first checking out what is good or not good to do on our forum.
PLEASE READ : -

Forum Guidelines
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/forumdisplay.php?fid=22

The info therein is GREAT and a MUST READ for all Newbies.
And do yourself a favor - don't just skim through the information therein, try reading it properly for you will benefit from doing so...especially Forum etiquette.

You may also want to read posts #1069, 1075, 1077, 1089, 1121, 1124, 1214 on this thread for further ideas on how to participate and enjoy yourself here.


My best wishes to y'all for your good and enjoyable membership here.

SEAJ

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Oh WOW!!
Talk about GREAT COINCIDENCES!

Please read Cunning Linguist's announcement:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... mp;page=1#pid363454

Now, even musky Members can also grant K's!!
Yeah!!

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 29-7-2011 01:45 ]

Cmon. Someone must be making money from this. I take it the girls have to pay to have the privilege to be on this great website , right? plus the advertising? and non paid mods.........someone is rolling in the money! Well done mate.


Thanks mate, but i dont have statistics:

dean.gerrard: LogOut | P.M. | Member List | Search | My | Member's CP | FAQ

is this because im a lowly newbie Boo!


EDIT: Sorry SEAJ, got a bit excited and posted twice.

[ Last edited by  dean.gerrard at 29-7-2011 03:06 ]

Bro SEAJ - thanks for the compliments. Certainly at the beginning the chase for status to see the photos was definitely very alluring, but after attaining RA30, to be honest it was quite a letdown. Here I was thinking there were all these amazing photos of really hot WG's in sexy poses that would allow me to get my jollies off, but it turns out, the photos were a major letdown compared to the heavy PS-ed photos posted by the WG's agents.

The RA30 status would be a great tool for the bros are are able/willing/allowed to punt in HK as you go in actually knowing what you're getting, but for me, I've got a self-established rule of not shitting where I eat.

My continued involvement in the site has definitely been the actual communication amongst the bros, sharing knowledge about the punting experience that I otherwise would not have the opportunity to do in my ordinary life (I'm a closet punter).

So I guess the moral of the story here is, for all the bros who are putting up effort (even with one liners) to get to RA30 and above, tame your expectations. Participate in the forum not for the K that stands for Karma, but for the K that stands for Knowledge (cheesy, I know! )

even if someone was posting strictly to get K's, that'd be awfully difficult. thats a few hundred relevant posts. i think if that was your only motive you'd give up by then. and just go to the Erotica section lol

Hey Bro - I certainly KNOW how you're probably feeling right now.  In fact, I'd think that most here would probably also know the feeling - that it seems that the amount of posting required to even reach RA 30 SEEMS to be so much of an insurmountable ballustrade.

OK - trust me - you just keep on posting, just participating,getting into discussions, report when you something to report etc - and I can guarantee you that sooner or later the act of writing up a post becomes a no-brainer!

A natural and instinctive second nature to you...and that's when you're gonna admit - DANG!!  SEAJ WAS right. This IS enjoyable!!  And in fact you'd probably go on to curse me -  Damn that SEAJ - now I'm addicted to this Lousy forum!!  LOL

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Guys just another li'l heads up

I've just posted up a few more new pictures of Keke on her thread
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... mp;extra=#pid363685

SEAJ

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Just in case you're interested, I've decided to make a compendium of all Idle Chat Thread posts meant to help newbies out, as a separate thread;

SUGGESTIONS/GUIDE FOR NEWBIES
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... 2122&highlight=

Please remember this page to refer newbies to - when they've got those question they are ALWAYS so wont to ask!!

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I can attest to SEAJ. Making the posts may seem tedious, even for me when I started out, but now as I write more, after Knowing more, it seems bros appreciate the knowledge that I'm sharing and adequately show their appreciation. Keep plugging away.

You're a fine example of somebody rising through the ranks. Good on ya!

I've also gotta mention the sharing and caring that dean.gerrard have been performing on the "Introduce Yourself" thread;  He has been using his acceptance points to credit those newbies who post their introduction there instead of just letting these points lapse daily.

I'm very sure that these newbies receiving his points feel good about this/welcomed.

Exemplary/Good job there Dean.  
Thanks for sharing and caring!!

SEAJ

I was reading SEAJ's story about Keke - here and also on your The Wrong Girl, The Wrong Time thread.

I couldn't help but compare it to my first Macau punt - Tough Story  which was over two months ago.  (Bro's please don't bump the thread - I'm not karma whoring, just giving context)

In that post I mentioned that we had exchanged instant message info and I wondered if we would stay in touch or not.

Well we have.  Initially daily, but now maybe once or twice a week.  She IM's on her phone while waiting for customers.  Every one a while mid-chat she says gotta work, and she's gone for a couple of hours or so.  She's never asked for money - just online company and support.  Well, she did ask me to send her a US two-dollar bill, but I haven't been able to locate one yet.

Over the past few months I have got to know her quite well.  Some days she is bright and cheerful, but lately she has become quite depressed.  She is thinking of the future - she plans not to renew her contract when it ends next year.  But what to do next.  There are two options, find work, or find a rich guy.  But with both options she has to explain what she has been doing for the last three years and she realizes that her chances of finding a good job, or a good rich guy are not that good.  She's also not that interested in the rich guy route.  She feels that given a random rich guy and poor guy, the rich guy is more likely to be an asshole.  She'd rather a happy poor life, than a miserable rich one.

I suggested school, but that requires time and money, and I'm not sure what her odds are at getting into a school.

So she's thinking of opening a stall in the market and selling stuff to tourists.  I know that she can't realistically aspire to be a nuclear physicist, but she's attractive, smart, speaks three or four languages, - I'm just think there has to be a better way to go civvie.  She's saving as much as she can right now, but as I mentioned in my first post, her paycheque gets sent home.  Any suggestions I can send her way?  Are there gov't programs or NGO's in Macau that help?  I would help her if I could -- I'm 99.9% sure that she's for real.

Yazoo ... what's your life story? You married? Single? If single, I say this type of communication and thought is ok, but if you're married, doing this would most likely get you divorced, either initiated by your SO or by you.

Are there good people working as WG's? Sure there are, but the chances of them not lying to you is pretty slim. Everyone has their own percentage bearings. For you, you think she's 99.9% for real, which means there's the 0.1% that she's faking it. You have to gauge for yourself. Like love (even with civvie), there's no such thing as a sure thing. As Hollywood terms it, you have to take a leap of faith.

As for her, this is a typical story of a poor girl from poor village being sent off to work, which happens all the time. Realistically, if she can latch on to a rich guy, even if he was an asshole, it may be better for her, as her future kids won't have to be in the same situation as her if she was to go down the "happy poor life" route.

Well, IMHO you are still on track on how you're handling the situation (but barely I may add!)

You see, I PERSONALLY subscribe to the idea that in all things, one must put one's whole heart into the enterprise if one is to derive the most benefit and pleasure; and in your case, you ARE treating the relationship as if its a full blown Love affair.  GREAT!!  And what's better is that you DO have it at the back of your head that the whole thing, although "so real" had all along been predicated upon $$ changing hands....and that your gal is definitely on the same track.

This is where you're probably starting to veer off the track!!  You're now forgetting that there is NOT going to be "setting off into the sunset hands-in-hands" for you 2.  The whole circumstances, the totally different background, differing sense of morality, demographics - in fact in just about ALL things, you two are just NOT going to make it in the long term as a couple. PERIOD!  And the sooner you both realize this, the better it is for you both AND will allow you 2 to come up with the NEEDED solution to the dilemma.

OK - none of us can save the whole world - but we individually can make it a better place for those we are involved with; and to that end, I suggest my usual solution to such relationships as follows:

- Discuss in earnest and in depth your relationship and with compete honesty and total candor - and the above points I wrote would be a good start.
- Make sure that in your discussion there is TOTAL understanding there is not even a hint of possibility for you 2 to EVER actually end up with each other "for the rest of your lives."  Not even a hint of such possibility.
- Come up with a workable and DEFINITE plan of action to tackle her need to address her future when she will no longer be able to/qualified to work as a WG.
- Start "funding"such endeavour by a. Telling her that she MUST save half of ALL income she receives. This includes and specifically applies to all monies you give to her b.Actually go with her to set up a bank account - either with you as account holder and you keeping the bank ATM card but you providing her with the PIN number or having the account under her own name but you holding on to both ATM card as well as the PIN, to half ass make it harder for her to just withdraw HER money at a whim. Check periodically that she actually IS depositing 1/2 of all her income to this account - and NO withdrawals whatsoever including for such things as operations for the father or replacing sick water buffaloes etc.
- Go and enjoy your ROMANCE but make sure that you re-visit the topic periodically;  Gals, especially WG's usually ain't the most rational beings on earth and they many times just go back into their own little "White Knight Dreams"

Just my take on your situation, that's all.

SEAJ

Sorry - perhaps a bit self-serving, even a conceited post here!

But I don't seem to be getting ANY traction at all on the above thread which I really believe should be of some use to the newbies to 141.
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... 2122&highlight=

No further suggestions to newbies, no ratings (positive OR negative), no other posts AND apparently even low "views" by others.

Could I perhaps impose on you guys to at least view it .... and of course indicate some kind of interest on it - but of course only if you subscribe to my original thought of having such a thread where we could point newbies to when they come up with their usual question.  Best of course if you could come up with further suggestions to newbies - and of course to also point out wrong/erroneous information that I had C+P'd on there.

Thanks Y'all

SEAJ