Subject: anyone still living with their parents at their late 20s?
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anyone still living with their parents at their late 20s?

i am, but feeling kind of hard these days.
thought about moving out but wanna safe more.
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Post at 3-10-2007 23:30  Profile P.M. 
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you want to try and write to Dear Abby ?






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Post at 3-10-2007 23:33  Profile P.M. 
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sorry... whats this about ?
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when teenagers have problems, they write to her






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i certainly need that sigh...
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Reply #6 jborne69's post

cheer up na






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well.  i shouldn't have told my mum about my financial health (which is on the good side)
she wants me to pay her more
and i hate that
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after a hard day's work
i came home having dinner,
and she asks me shit... sigh
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Reply #9 jborne69's post

All mums are like that.........so we are no diff.

I guess, the more u give her , the less punting  u gonna get.....

But then, family first..............




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Reply #9 jborne69's post

If it's any consolation, a huge percentage of Italian men live at home until their forties. Google it.
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Dear 20 and still living at home,

It's common for Chinese in Hong Kong to live with their families at any age, simply because rent is so goddam expensive. If you want your own place, you really have to be pulling in a lot of money. You don't share this mentality. Just wondering, are you not from HK?

My solution would be to just tell your mom how you feel. Tell her you want to start saving your own money, but in exchange for not paying her, help her round the house or something. Granted, you better be saving some money and not mongering it all away! Otherwise you're screwed!


Truly yours,
Abby
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Reply #12 English's post

taking a part time job to support your activities ??






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A real solution

Be a duck and live in your "duck nest" =D
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This is a really wierd thread. M, you recently banned some poor shmuck for posting something off-topic. And now we're all discussing whether a guy should live with his mum? And I can't
believe you recommended that he write to Dear Abby - that's really funny         And the reply was even funnier -  "sorry... whats this about ".       OK, now I get it. It's all a big joke.   
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Reply #12 English's post

i am from hong kong but i am just really pissed off / disappointed by the fact that
my parents cannot take care of their own kids even at the age of 50.
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The Admin in a message told me that a variety of topics under Chat is OK

The only message that I ban is one in the video section; promoting some football or soccer team or something like that. I wouldn't have ban the poster if he posted here; after you can talk about anything under Chat, except no illegal materials is involved.

As for this thread, let's have some fun

I was thinking of starting a thread on horse racing; the favorite pastime of Hongkong


life is not sex every day; but horse racing is 2 days a week ......................................






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Come on bro, now that you have a job too, you should know how hard it is to make money in Hong Kong!

Which makes me wonder how some fuckers can be rich enough to have a two-day baby shower party with a live band and all in the Four Seasons...
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Seriously...

In the US, parents are responsible to take care of their kids until the kids become 18. Of course, some take care of their kids throughout college also. Some posters point out the good points that the rent in HK is expensive. I do understand that the privacy issue can be a big problem also. Being nagged on by parents can be quite unbearable at times. I know because I was in those shoes before.

If you are paying rent to them, you shouldn't have to live by their "rules" anymore. If you feel that they are asking you for too much rent, tell them. Parents tend to be nosy and nag on you a lot because they care about you.

The longer you endure, the more $$$ you save up. Thus the more likely you can buy your own house. Remember, patience is golden, or "yun dak si kum".
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