Subject: Being friendly, friend-ing and being friendlier with WGs / HGs / Massage Girls?
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Post at 27-1-2010 00:55  Profile P.M. 
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“Because of my job, it not really good to be seen with you in the public, my job doesn’t allow me to do so…”

come on, that's a little harsh to say to her directly. It conveys that you're embarrassed of who she is, and that you may think she's lower class, not good enough for you, etc, etc.... (this is what she would interpret, not necessarily how you honestly feel)

Jokingly say something like, "naaah, you look so much better naked, i don't wanna see you fully clothed outside", or "Movie!? that's boring, we can have so much more fun alone and inside!"

She would get the message, but wouldn't be so hurt.
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Post at 27-1-2010 10:29  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by bonkers89 at 27-1-2010 00:55


come on, that's a little harsh to say to her directly. It conveys that you're embarrassed of who she is, and that you may think she's lower class, not good enough for you, etc, etc.... (this is what ...

man - thank you for your opinion - i truly appreciate that - mayb i should have said something else afterall ... .thanks ....
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Post at 27-1-2010 11:37  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #22 erictsang62's post

why are you even embarassed of the WG? Does she dress all slutty out in public? Just tell her to wear normal clothes and who is going to know what she does for a living. Geez, wg's have feelings too.
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Post at 27-1-2010 11:54  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #23 venetiangirls's post

I'm guessing the girl is way too young and way too hot for our bro.   And we all know what we think when we see that on the street.  
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Post at 27-1-2010 16:22  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by kaka at 26/1/10 01:18

believe it or not, some of the best times i spent with a WG is not when we fuck...
but is when we spend some alter ego time together.

Same for me - I've "befriended" two WGs, and one of them sure felt like a relationship - and some of the best times I've had in China was sightseeing with them (one at a time, mind you...).

As for the question of "how much do you pay when you're on a date" - for both of the girls that got to this "friend" level with me, it was on the basis that I'd give them money "to help out" and they'd sleep over, but without discussing an amount, so it wasn't a set fee for payment, just whatever I thought I could spare and how generous I felt.
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Post at 27-1-2010 18:41  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by pisser at 27-1-2010 11:54
I'm guessing the girl is way too young and way too hot for our bro.   And we all know what we think when we see that on the street.  

haha well said - if u see a WG / HG on the street - do u recon you could tell the difference between her and a normal girl?
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Post at 27-1-2010 18:42  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by tuteman at 27-1-2010 16:22


Same for me - I've "befriended" two WGs, and one of them sure felt like a relationship - and some of the best times I've had in China was sightseeing with them (one at a time, mind you...) ...

This also seems like a great way to get things done too... heh -

Its actually interesting though - i would have thought less people would friend their wg / hgs ....
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Post at 28-1-2010 06:18  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by venetiangirls at 27-1-2010 11:37
why are you even embarassed of the WG? Does she dress all slutty out in public? Just tell her to wear normal clothes and who is going to know what she does for a living. Geez, wg's have feelings too.

I'm assuming its because he doesn't want friends, family, work acquaintances to accidentally see that he's hanging out with a young chick, who is obviously not his wife.
That would put you into a dicey situation.
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Post at 28-1-2010 10:45  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by bonkers89 at 28-1-2010 06:18


I'm assuming its because he doesn't want friends, family, work acquaintances to accidentally see that he's hanging out with a young chick, who is obviously not his wife.
That would put you into a di ...

very true.... very true...
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Post at 28-1-2010 11:38  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by erictsang62 at 27-1-2010 18:41
... if u see a WG / HG on the street - do u recon you could tell the difference between her and a normal girl?

Interesting question. If she's on her own or with girlfriends, maybe not. If she's with an older guy,
especially if she's Asian and he's Western, probably.  

As I just read in another thread, it's not difficult to recognise a 'match made in money'.
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Post at 28-1-2010 11:40  Profile P.M. 
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hmnmm , pisser, since u think its an interesting question - ima gonna start another thread with this heading haha

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Post at 28-1-2010 11:44  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by erictsang62 at 27-1-2010 18:41
do u recon you could tell the difference between her and a normal girl?

entirely depends how she's dressed and how she's walking.  

... I'm sure you know EXACTLY what I mean ...

But I've seen plenty of WGs who dress 'down' (e.g. jeans and blouse) and would blend in to a crowd anywhere as an OL / girl-next-door / or whatever.




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Post at 29-1-2010 00:40  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by leeyoh at 26-1-2010 08:59
Do you think they somtimes they will tell us the real truth of why they are here?

Not any more than we tell them the real truth.
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