Hi everyone, as you can see im very new to this forum.  I was introduced by a good friend of mine who had been on this forum for a very long time.

Recently, my good friend and myself went to this place in Victoria where he was told there were Japanese girls.  He knew that I was dying for a Jap girl so he
took me to this place.

So there I was, sitting in the livingroom of a very expensive looking apartment with the keeper getting us all a chinese tea or soft drink etc.  The girls were just sitting around
in the livingroom.  Not talking to you or anything like that, I guess thats the keeper's rule as some girls would have an advantage being able to speak chinese since
most of their customers are Orientals and get friendly with the customers.  There were Japs, Korean and chinese girls.

Anyway, I went with the Japanese girl.  60 for 30mins and 90 for 1 hour.  The other girls there are slightly cheaper, for example, the ones from China.  She was very friendly, not pushy.  Didn't speak much English which I felt kind of made it more interesting.  Long black hair, silk like skin.  Not very experienced in the bed but Im not saying she was bad.  She knew what she was doing.  As soon as you agreed to do business, she is yours.  I never kissed her mouth but pretty much anything goes.  Shower, back in the
room, do whatever then shower afterwards.  The place was very clean, very busy at the start of the week and very quite on Wed, Thurs and weekend.  If it took you an hour to have 1Q then its 90 and if it only took you 30mins then its 60.

Anyway, I should really get back to why I am here opening this topic titled "A DATE?".

I have been to this place twice now and both time was with this Japanese girl.  On the second occassion, it was very quiet on a Wednesday night and we talked a lot more
than the first time.  During this conversation, she asked me out on a date.  There was no mistake in it.  She actually used the word, DATE.  She asked me to go drinking
with her and she said she hadn't seen much of London and wanted to take some photos of London.  I told her that I would be interested to keep my options opened and
see what else she had to say.  She asked for my number and said that her flatmate, who was also a Japanese girl would call me to arrange it because she spoke better
English.  I did ask her why me?  I mean of all the people she meets in that place, why ME?  I mean im not rich, I certainly don't dress like a rich man, Im not very good looking,
average I guess.  Still, she hasn't called yet.  Maybe she wouldn't which means I don't have to actually decide on whether to go on this date.

Anyone wish to comment on this incident.  Feel free, maybe you have been in the same situation.  Please let me know.

should have asked her for her phone number instead

"don't call me, I will call you"

I hate to say this but shes just after your passport But I have heard that japanese women tend to like foreign people as they treat them better than thier japanese counterparts different mentallity culture etc. I'll go for it   u only live once bud

Think positively: Maybe she is just lonely and wanted to go out with a nice guy.

Thanks for all the support.

I will bear the "passport" in mind if I go.

Still not heard from her yet and sorry about two topics

hi mr_ kusanagi.

i will be going to london soon and i would love to have some fun with those chinese, korean girls too.
Can you give me any addresss in Victoria where i can find them.

Thanks for your help, bro
you can email me on hlyy88@yahoo.com

Andy, I have sent you an email.  Sorry for the late reply but I have been busy.

So she did call and we went out and she was very nice.  Its strange how someone act when they are working compared to when they are out of work.

She was just like the girl that I always hoped for.  Sweet and cute.  Good nature and willing to try and make conversation even though there is a
language barrier between us.

Of course, I will still be careful and not fall for her just because we went out on one date.

Again, I would like to thank all those who took time to read my lengthy post and give me positive support and worthy advice.

This is definitely premature, but I thought I should mention the fact that two individuals trying to live as one unit is difficult enough. In mix marriages we have to also deal with different cultures and values. It takes a very strong and understanding couple with a lot of give and take to make mix marriages work

compromise ...........................

difficult but possible

Wow. Thats cheap for London! If I had known such a place existed I would definitely have gone. Thanks for the flag up, mr. Kusunagi. I'd say, go for the date (especially if you get free bangage afterwards).

Long-term girlfriend? I dont think so.

how about short term girlfriend or temporary gf?

If you had posted on the confusedlove.com forums, I probably would tell you to give it a try.

However, this is the 141 forums. So the advice you're gonna get from me is to fuck first, ask questions later.

Jacky chan said that phrase before....

and he ended with .............................

You mean English's brother?

willie the whale perhaps

yep.....English has a bother by the name of jackychan.....
not sure bout the father though.....maybe by the name of bruce lee