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Few days ago, I was chatting the topic of CIM with a bro and he said that  this one regular Thai of WG of his offer him max GFE bcos she allow the bro to CIM her.

As far as I know and experience, chances of receiving CIM from a WG is higher and easier than from civvie, because it is one of the many service a WG needs to offer when sucking a customer cock and if they are willing do it for extra money/tips, it becomes a routine and standard process for the WG.

But when getting a CIM from GF or Wife, I have to sometime [B]Persuade and come up with tricks/ideas to get her into the CIM mood .
Not straight forward and you cant just command her. Sometime, there may be condition, "In return, you must/need  (sexual.non-sexual favor).........."

But does that mean my GF and Wife do not give me GFE?
I love her  and she loves me.......she is my SO, my dear family, GFE, hell yes!!!!


So I told this bro, CIM may not necessary linked / related to GFE factor. It is her job....
GFE is something long term, emotional and bonding........
But if your are a regular to a WG, chance to CIM is always higher. But does that mean she is very GFE???

Just an observation but I find it so true........

Based on my personal experience from WGs in the Philippines, if they did CIM or CIM then swallow free willingly, then i'm sure they liked me although there are also some who do it professionally w/c gives them a better critieria among the guests sharing experiences w/ one another.

I do not think CIM as linked to GFE at all...

GFE to me is not banging the chick senseless. But more like DFK, cuddling etc....

My SO has never let me CIM.  She is all about sex....we have done lots of experimenting, but no CIM.

Before my current SO I only ever had 2 girls friends do it and it was once each. (maybe my cum stinks.ha ha).

I agree with DGS, working girls taking in the gullet for me has only been with ones I am pretty sure honestly like me............not love but like...........well I doubt love..................

I'm just sayin..........

Che'lu

May i also add that those WGs who did CIM and spit out may just be doin it as a profession but those who voluntarily do CIM then swallow may not only like you but certainly wana have a good/complete taste of you.
Afterwards, they'll tell you it taste DELICIOUS! Thats GFE and PSE at the same time.

[ Last edited by  devilgodspeed at 5-3-2012 12:36 ]

In the U.S., civvie girls will almost universally say that their willingness to take it in the mouth is entirely dependent on how much they like the guy.  And it seems like it's not just that they'll choke it down, but that it's actually more enjoyable (or less offensive, take your pick!   ).  Once again, the power of emotional attraction on physical desire is demonstrated.

True i myself would also wana suck dry their juices thru DATY if by any chance i not only lust for the girl but also like her thus making our session much enjoyable and mutual with some affection.

[ Last edited by  devilgodspeed at 5-3-2012 13:16 ]

CIM is pretty standard on most Asian apartment gals menus these days in LA, and almost de rigeur with the Koreans. Then again, you're paying $250 US and up for the privilege.

Nope. Most civvies I have dated were no go on the CIM - but I would say more than 50% of the WGs who offered me BBBJ would go for CIM, either for free or a small charge. I'm not actually that big a fan - I prefer to bust a nut in FS, but each to their own. Once in a while when I can't finish in FS, I will CIM or COF, but almost never with a civvie.

I did once get a civvie in college who let me CIM, and then she came up, gave me a big kiss, and spat it all back in my mouth. She seemed to find it amusing. I was less excited about a big mouthful of my own regurgitated spunk, but I guess I can't really complain. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. I never blew a load in her mouth after that. Maybe that was her intention all along.

she may have done it out of curiosity and gain some experience having the loads blown inside her mouth and taste how its like.
for that, i'm quite sure she brags about it during women's talk.

[ Last edited by  devilgodspeed at 5-3-2012 15:06 ]

It is a huge error, in my opinion, for bros to mistake PSE for GFE.  PSE, or PornStarExperience refers to a gal that does every frickn sexual thing we could want, including CIM, COF, etc.  Fun..., worth trying, worth having a few sexual maniacs as regulars.  But it is NOT GFE!

GFE refers to a gal that makes you feel as though she WANTS to be, more than anything, beside you in bed or in the bar or wherever, because she really likes you.  You are her beloved boyfriend for as much time as you can give her.  Maybe she's also a sexual maniac (great combo!), or maybe she's a little more reserved (fine too)...  this really has nothing to do with it.  GFE usually means great DFK, lots of cuddling, lots of attention, and a general mood and behavior that just plain makes you think she's totally into you.  It could be an act, it could be real, and often a little bit of both.  The real pro's are masters at this.  Punters will repeat often with that gal who made him feel special as well as got him off!

It is what I try to find and/or evoke in the bars when I go hunting for a gal.

[ Last edited by  wander at 5-3-2012 21:14 ]

I agree with Bros who think CIM does not really = GFE.

My SO and almost all my ex-gfs does CIM but then again I guess I was and am lucky as many of my friends tells me their SOs does not do CIM. But that doesn't mean their SOs don't love them or they have lousy sex. My SO have only swallowed once but she didn't mind CIM without swallowing.

For WGs I think it's all part of the bargain for the punt (if it's in the bargain).

Just MHO.

My SO always offer me CIM but has complained at times that she doesn't like the taste of it. Though it really depends on diet... which brings me to a question... what makes it taste better??

People tell me pineapple works but I'm allergic to it unless it's been preserved/salted.

Actually it seemed to depend on our in takes, but a WG once told me that she usually drink SPRITE after swallowing cum or the taste may stick in her throat for awhile.

CIM does not mean GFE

But I would expect my SO to be into me enough to satisfy me mentally and physically... so if CIM is what I need she should live to satisfy my needs.

So, I do understand where you 'warm-and-fuzzy' types are coming from here, BUT, in the U.S. hobbying community, GFE actually means a very specific set of services (BBBJ, DFK, DATY) and GFE+ typically means that she allows CIM.    Just so y'all know we speak a different language over here!

And as to civvies, I've never had one that DIDN'T CIM.  Heaven!

CIM can be both PSE and/or GFE.  I think the sensation of PSE and GFE are totally subjective.

Kinda like you know it when you experience it.

PSE being all the acrobatics and slutty provocative moves that make you fee like a porn star.  Doesn't have to be an emotional bond, just rockin' sex.

GFE conversely relies more heavily on that (or perceived) emotional connection that leads to intense albeit more caring sex.

Both scenarios can include CIM.

I'm just sayin......

Che'lu

have you guys read freakanomics?
in the latest book they discuss why the cost of bj has gone down to less than the price of regular sex.
long time ago, it was the opposite - bj costs more than just sex.
Its basically the supply/demand model.
because in the past, wives/gf would not give their lover bj but since morals have changed over the years, receiving bj is more common now from S.O. so the price has gone down.
maybe one day the same thing will happen with CIM.

Man, was going to post the very same thing, just finished Freakonomics last month!
But the point is valid, that as CIM becomes more accepted and more of a social norm, it won't be considered anything as special, and so the price would drop down.

However, part of my like for the CIM is that its a bit harder to achieve, so the effort of getting it makes it worth the reward, but if it became commonplace, I wonder if its appeal would drop, and there would be something else that all us bros would be chasing after ... ie, COF, or anal ...

Gotta check out the book..sounds interesting.

I am very sure when something becomes the norm, something else more appealing will come up. Aprt from COF, anal... who knows maybe 3-some for civvies will become something to look forward to? I am sure most of us Bros have this fantasy of having a 3-some with a couple of really hot bi-chicks...especially if the girls are hot looking twin sister