What’s everyone’s thoughts on this? I’m 23 and it seems like everyone my age probably has some sort of sexual experience but I’ve got none, which makes me feel like I’m missing out on what’s supposed to be my best years.

Also, any recommendations on who would be nice for a first time? I’m an expat so English speaking would be a must

Short answer: Just do it

Long answer: Do it. You will learn some things about yourself. What you like and don't like. Most likely you consumed porn videos before. You will find out that not everything shown in porn is fun or feels good, and vice versa, what feels good doesn't always look good. Go in open minded and try out things. Maybe you like getting rimmed, maybe you like a woman sitting on your face, maybe you like Anal, maybe you like getting dominated with a strap-on. Find out what you like, this will make you a better partner in the future. Knowing what you like yourself and accommodating another person is important in a relationship.

For the first time i would recommend someone that is "fun" and sees their services as a job. If they provide too much GFE, then your head might get confused. If it is too much PSE, you might be overwhelmed. It depends on you.

We can only recommend someone if we know where you are. If you are in Thailand, I think Ja from Bamboo Massage is up to the job.

In general, it might be helpful to let the provider know what you are there for. I forgot where i read it, but someone reported online that he had "multiple" first times with WG. Because he stated why he was there, they were more "caring" and took things slow. He seemed to enjoy that a lot and repeated his first time with many different WG. Just for your consideration.

Laszlo's advice is excellent. Http://forum.141-hk.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=91537 would have been a perfect address to visit.

[ Last edited by  Hobbier at 13-2-2024 19:28 ]

No shame in having your first time with a WG. Just be smart about it and remember that you are there to have sex, not an emotional connection. That said, if having an actual girlfriend is your goal, you should invest in that too (physical appearance, social skills etc). If not, enjoy the sex and be careful not to spend too much

I lost my V-card to a WG at 22, and I don't regret it. It was liberating, because it significantly reduced the pressure to get laid. One less thing to think of when approaching/dating girls.

Having said that, I got complacent with cheap sex and didn't invest in dating as much. Don't date for sex, date for relationships, and develop your ways of dealing with relationships, problems, personality mismatches, etc.

Oh, and don't mention to any girl that you were seeing WGs. Some women might tolerate a history of such, but the girls I told saw me as "broken goods" and certainly contributed to the demise of those relationships.

While I didn't lose my V card with a WG, the best and most experience I have gotten was with WGs right afterwards. There is a fascination about losing it and who to lose it with but in reality it doesn't matter in the long run. Just do it and make sure you don't catch feelings.

Do it bro! Learn about yourself and what you prefer in sex. You can even treat as like a training course, preparing you for when you eventually get your own girl.

Get good at punting, you'll be good in hole-in-ones

I feel like all the stress of dating is made worse by you wanting to get laid. Makes you put up with shit that you normally wouldn’t.

Fuck with a few wg 10’s and realize that sex is great but not the end all.  So if a girl isn’t meeting your standard or isn’t who you’d typicallly like you don’t have to feel like you need to fuck with her because you’ve definitely had better.

Then when you meet a girl you actually have a real connection with you’ll be readyand be prepared because even with your best sex game you’ll be surprised how my a connection increases pleasure.

Also, don't feel pressured to perform.

Everything was so new for me when I tried a wg for my virginity that I was really confused and couldn't finish. Just keep at it and after a while your LB will get used to it.

Afterwards you'll be able to date much better as well since I think being a virgin in your mid-late 20s as a guy makes you feel insecure when you're dating girls you really like.

Thanks guys. I think I’ll do it in the coming weeks.

currently looking around for a nice provider who is fluent in English. I don’t care much about the race as long as it’s a good experience. Any suggestions?

I'm going to go against the grain a bit here.

If you're a reasonable looking young man, I'd hold tight and try to lose it with a girlfriend or at least a girl who's into you and wants to see you naked. However, if women simply aren't attracted to you and you think it'll never happen, then just go for it.

I had a couple of girlfriends when I was young but I've been firmly in the undatable camp for many years now. If you like or want any kind of emotional attachment (I prefer it that way), then you'll enjoy it much more with a girlfriend.

Just my two cents.

Best of luck whatever you do, young Sir.

[ Last edited by  JasonWu at 3-3-2024 16:21 ]

I’m in Hong Kong, forgot to mention that sorry

Bro, too many choices in HK. Since you are already here, just do it.