I am almost 30, and haven’t had my first time experience. Is this normal? Just wondering how you guys had your first time experience, and how was it.

What do you mean by first time? First time having sex with a civilian? First time going to an erotic masseuse? ... First blowjob? First bareback blowjob? First sexual encounter? First bareback sexual encounter? Lots of potential firsts here.

Thailand - Pattaya Beach and I've been coming back ever since.  It was a soapy too so it was a sensory overload as a 22 year old.

during august this summer lol. was rly nervous but glad i went thru with it

30 is not unusual. Do you care who your first experience should be with? If not, you're certainly on the right website with the resources to find an encounter.

As for myself, 21. And then mongering a few years after that when I didn't want to deal with the drama of relationships.

27 a few months after getting married. My wife is one of those conservative kinds that wanted to save it for marriage. After doing it she felt it was too time consuming with all the foreplay. She’s super vanilla and never into it which is why I’m here

First time was at 24. I had just broken up with my ex and travelled to Hong Kong with a friend. He introduced me to walk ups at Fuji building and I visited a few providers.

happy ending massage while in seattle, probably about 5 years ago. i knew it was a thing but never tried until later in life. i still remember afterwards thinking wow that was easy!

2006, I was 22. Some girl off Craigslist. It was nothing amazing.

I had the weirdest first time ever. I was about 19 years old and I really liked webcam streams. Something like this bongacams.com/arab (This is an important part of the story). Anyway. A friend came over to my house ( I was already living alone at the time). We were having a great time and at some point while I went to open a beer or something, she turned on my computer to google something. And there was some girl live masturbating all over the screen. Apparently she was really turned on by it and when I came back she was already naked. Luckily I took advantage of the moment

I was 27. It was with a walk up girl in Hong Kong. It helped me get over my dry spell

Y'all some late bloomers. I first got laid in HS. If you're thirty and never had your first experience, you have a lot of pussy crushing to catch up on.

and as someone else said, you're in the right place to get some practice and experience.

Yeah I am also confused by this; I feel some answers here are pertaining the first time having sex; and other answers here are about the first time getting paid sex.

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First time sex: I was 19; I went to the bar with some guys I met in my neighborhood. In the bar, we came across two girls who were friends of the guys. One average looking girl who loved to chat and was quite smart and witty. One stunning looking girl who was extremely shy and quiet. Obviously I immediately fell in love with the stunning girl. Got her contact info somehow and asked her on a date. Stupidly (or maybe not) took her to a swimming pool on our first date. She looked gorgeous in a swimming suit. However we had no chemistry, there was no banter, she did not swim, all she did was look around at other handsome guys.

I also started chatting with the average looking girl (who was her friend), on MSN messenger at the time. Chatted more and more. I think around new year 2000, we came on the topic of sex. Said we were both virgins, said both of us were tired of being virgins, both of us were curious ... welll .. you know where this is going .. So we met, experimented, had sex, lost our virginities, had a relationship for 3 months, filled with lots and lots of sex, then finally learned that relationships are more than just screwing around and broke up ...

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First time paid sex: I was 34; married, but selfishly really didn't feel like having sex with just one girl for the rest of my life; knew at one point I was going to cheat on her anyway; so I figure might as well do it while I'm still relatively young, .. found an advertisement on the internet; contacted the girl, booked a hotel, and met her. However since it was my first time, I was too nervous, it wasn't fun, it wasn't great and I regretted wasting my money on that, while masturbating would have been more satisfying, and cheaper. I did repeat a few months later, with another girl, which I had much more chemistry with, then I was hooked.

First time was when I was 19 in the Philippines at a bachelor party. The Tito’s wanted to show us kids from the states how they partied and they took us to a strip club. I thought I knew what to expect until the group of ladies took us to the back and all of a sudden we’re all heading off to a separate room with our own girl. I couldn’t believe I was about to smash for just $60 bucks. I’m a virgin, what’s this?!

Somehow lucked out and secured me the girl with the biggest tits. What more can a teenage guy ask for?  she starts with the condom BJ but even for a virgin I’m thinking that I’m experiencing way too much teeth so I asked to change positions.  I pick her up just like they’re doing the pornos, literally curling this 105 lbs Asian baddie with her legs draped over my arms, and start jack hammering away.   Shit is so good I lose focus, my dick slips, Hit it at a weird angle and bend my dick so bad we had to stop

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First time with anyone was with a girl who was visiting a friend. Partied together with others during Halloween and she jumped me when she heard I've never done it before. I was in my early 20s when this happened. First time paying was when I went on a boys trip to Asia. I was suppose to do it in Hong Kong and went with a friend. The ones we wanted to see was right next to each other. Unfortunately, the girl I wanted to see was out for dinner (the girl who my friend saw told me). My friend of course got his. The next stop was Bangkok where my friend has been and knows all the spots. I was shocked. All I had to do was point at a number and they just come over. Nana Plaza was where I got paid for the first time. Then Soi Cowboy. Then another spot. I got one pretty much every night. A regular massage in the morning and fun at night. Sight seeing in between.

If by first time you mean losing my v-card... 18 y/o with a girlfriend

First time mongering... in my mid 20s.
Realized that GFs and dating are more expensive than paying for it LOL
Haven't looked back since ~ but i do accept that if i don't want to genocide my own bloodline, i need to take civvies more seriously eventually!
(i'm early 30s, got a little time)

Who cares how old you are - just take the leap and go for it!
You realize later that who you lose your virginity to, while memorable, doesn't really matter.

First time sex back in College when i was 19.

First time punting was last december, tried a few Saunas in HK. I’m 24.

Very excited to continue this hobby. Hopefully I live long.

I think I was about 24? Was sleeping and a friend called and asked me to pick her up from the bar. She stayed at my place where I gave her the bed and I took the floor. She told me to join her on the bed. She was feeling on bigboi and then one thing led to another.

First time was with girlfriend. I was 18 years old. First time with a WG was mid 20s I think, cant really remember, but I recall she had big tits

My first time was when I was in college studying computer science. I'm Chinese and I met her in the general education class. She was Chinese herself and came over the US for studying. We chatted for a while and she invited me to her dorm. One thing led to the other and that afternoon I lost my virginity. It was the most awkward moment in my life because it felt like I was stabbing a woman I love with this weird stick coming out from me.

Any ways, I finished in like 30 seconds and she started to laugh. It wasn't her first time.