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tonkachi Lustful Lord UID 3263 Digest Posts 0 Credits 840 Posts 563 Karma 819 Acceptance 410 Reading Access 40 Registered 18-9-2007 Status Offline

#1 Post at 18-1-2018 15:14  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Married Co-workers to bring a "friend" to company meeting.... So me and my co-worker were discussing this and wanted to see what you guys think.  He's married and me, him and 3 other people (2 of them are females) are going to an out of town meeting for 5 days.  he wants to fly one his his "girlfriends" for the trip and spend time with her at the meeting.  I told him there is quite a risk because the female co-workers know his wife and see her often and they are most likely to rat him out to her.....If it wasn't the 2 female coworkers going i told him bro code and you do whatever the hell you want. Would you risk it and the other co-workers tell his wife that he had friends over? Recent Ratings joey88   29-1-2018 13:50   Acceptance   +2   Madness. Set for nasty divorce & giving wife’s lawyers buckets of ammo. Stupid MothToAFlame   27-1-2018 23:22   Acceptance   +5   Sure fire route to divorce, and job loss too jeffzeke   26-1-2018 10:17   Acceptance   +5   gotta be more discrete than that, LOL! batman108   19-1-2018 12:01   Acceptance   +2   No way and too risky deviantmindhk   18-1-2018 15:31   Acceptance   +1   sounds like a quick way for him to become de-married

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#2 Post at 18-1-2018 15:31  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L If he thinks the fun is worth the risk, and he can afford it (he has to pay the air ticket, hotel and all her food and shopping, plus say about few thousand dollars a day) then I go for it. But like you said, at his own risk.

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#3 Post at 18-1-2018 15:52  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L 1. Yes, there is risk that the girls will rat him out. 2.  He could be judged and lose respect of his co-workers. 3. Work place is a competitive environment, you don't want to give that kind of ammunition to your co-workers, girls or guys. Not worth it. He could remain back after the meeting for a couple of days of fun, if he can manage that.

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#4 Post at 18-1-2018 21:00  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Put me in that situation and I'd be liable to kick some butt...forget the ladies Everyone is free to do what they want on their opwn time but this is involving and expecting someone else to do (or not to do) something here. Not cool in my book. Specially if it comes as out of the blue...

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#5 Post at 18-1-2018 22:56  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L To quote a bad movie (again).... You gotta ask yourself... Is the juice worth the squeeze? Hrmmm.... Knowing so little info, it's hard to analyse. So... There are a few possibilities that come to mind. 1.  Part of his thrill is the chance of being caught. Become more brazen to see what he can get away with. 2. He subconsciously feels guilt and wants to be caught. 3. Marriage might be on its last legs and he just doesn't care if he's caught. 4. Kind of like #1. There is some hubris / arrogance that he won't get caught. 5. Or .... He's just thinking with the little head. Lol As for me.... Family is too important to f*ck up over pu$$y. ~UD Recent Ratings jeffzeke   26-1-2018 10:19   Acceptance   +5   very good perspective. doghead   25-1-2018 07:55   Acceptance   +3   6. Nationality (hence culture) of company is big factor too. Western companies : Big no-no. Asian companies : manageable ... NeverWong   24-1-2018 13:47   Acceptance   +1   Agree theworm   18-1-2018 23:56   Acceptance   +5   totally agree with you on this one.

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#6 Post at 19-1-2018 07:48  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #1 tonkachi's post It really depends on how discrete he is.  If he is out and about with her, he's begging to be caught.  If she only comes to the room late at night and they spend no time together during the day, then relatively risk free.

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#7 Post at 19-1-2018 11:41  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L No bro, I would not risk it, it's not my style. I'd rather keep my professional life away from my personal one. Recent Ratings obe   19-1-2018 16:05   Acceptance   +10   Exactly

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#8 Post at 19-1-2018 15:19  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L This guy is a moron and deserves what is coming too him!  If he doesn't know the saying "Don't shit where you eat!"  Then he obviously has no active brain cells.

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#9 Post at 19-1-2018 15:43  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by p0ison at 18-1-2018 15:52 1. Yes, there is risk that the girls will rat him out. Also that you will be "tarred" with the same brush and if the girls know your SO, they will tell the story to her......... or your boss......or bosses boss...... As others have said each to their own but this isn't just about risk to your colleague, their may be significant personal and professional risk to you IMHO just my tuppence

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#10 Post at 19-1-2018 16:43  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Don't think money is that much of any issue with him bringing up the girl...and I can see all of these other problems that you guys are bringing to light...thanks for the feedback.  And a lot of times i think he just thinks with his little head vs actually using his brain.   I mean the girls if they caught him could use this to "shame" him for life and he'd be in their hands for the rest of the time he with us at the company or how long they are with the company.   The bosses don't really care too much as he loves to go out have fun drink with the ladies and just have a blast at the meeting.  This is his second meeting with us and this year the group is bigger but he's still thinking that he can get away with this kind of stuff with the other peps around. Recent Ratings UncleDad   19-1-2018 23:08   Acceptance   +4   You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink mate.

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#11 Post at 26-1-2018 09:57  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Pretty risky, if he's horny, i would suggest just call an outcall to his hotel room at night so no one would know and get it done. Unless he like the excitement of doing the danger things. maybe that's what is getting him excited

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#12 Post at 26-1-2018 10:40  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Even an outcall with a WG is a bit risky.  I punt quite a bit during working trips and meetings out of town.  I am particularly sensitive to hotels who are foolish enough to have the entire group in rooms back to back!  Especially with thin walls, I am paranoid about colleagues hearing all my conversations and banging WGs, especially the loud ones, LOL!  Might make them envious, or if they are female colleagues, they could react differently.

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#13 Post at 26-1-2018 11:19  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #12 jeffzeke's post Lol that is true. i had a business trip to chicago last year where i could had done an outcall but didn't since there was too many senior leadership on this trip. Could have done it but the elevators had a card lock on it, so unless i go downstairs to pick her up, she can't come up. And i wouldn't want any coworker seeing me bring a chick back up to my room.

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#14 Post at 28-1-2018 18:00  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Ya i've advised him against it...we'll see what happens

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