1. for me, being married and still in love with my wife does not remove the desire to also fuck a variety of cute young women. simple as that. idk if I’m wired wrong but i just dont feel a conflict between those two things. my wife’s sex drive has dropped with age and she wont do everything i’d like, and I wouldnt dream of coercing her so here we are. plus i have plenty of disposable income now so if i’m extra careful and dont get caught, why the fuck not. i say go for it bro
2. think about the level of risk you are comfortable with and act accordingly. idk if you have a wife/family you need to keep this hidden from - if you do that increases the amount of care you need to take exponentially. some things i do include
- have a separate phone/SIM. do all mongering related activity on this phone. nothing on your real phone or laptop, not even web browsing. keep this phone powered off, dead battery (eg at the bottom of a junk drawer) when not actively organising a visit. obviously, unique PIN code on this handset just in case.
- Always VPN / incognito window / duckduckgo / etc
- do not buy a tesla or other always-connected car. All it takes is for your wife to check where you are and… busted.
- think ahead, think about everything that could go wrong and have an excuse / cover story ready ahead of time
- figure out how to get cash without it showing up on the bank statement. My plays are - Cashback at the supermarket. Venmo debit card.
- use established, well reviewed providers / orgs. finding randos on listcrawler or PD is asking for trouble imo.
- share as little PII during reviewing as possible, and only then with established revewed orgs or providers. my red line is sharing anything that could be used to track back to me at home or work. So - NO home address, NO work address, employer name, payroll ID, linkedin, etc. If they demand any of that, its a hard NO from me, no matter how hot their girls are.
- Learn to walk away if something feels off, no matter how horny you are.
- if your wife has an iPhone, get an android… and vice-versa. Its easier to track your phone if you and the wife are in the same ecosystem
- make being away from home normal. Join a gym, take up mountain biking, play pokemon go, whatever. Make being not at home or work, alone, for 2+ hours at a time normal.
[ Last edited by evade82 at 19-3-2024 01:51 ] | |
