I've had 3 relationships with K-WGs
1st: Just hit it off, kept me over and asked me to always schedule the last session. Then would keep me over, take off war paint, bring down the screen and hang out w/ me and roommate watching TV, eating and snuggling. Went out a few times. Then she disappeared suddenly for a break, cut ties and left me confused. She returned month(s) later, booked her to talk, and she admitted she couldn't balance the professional life while developing feelings. Asked to part, and we did.
2nd: Text back and forth. Took out for dates on days off and she started taking days off with me even when not on period. Even would start late to have an early day date, where she would ask to cancel the first session to sneak me up after getting hot and heavy in the car. Took an extended few days off in Monterey. Would send me hot pics in the morning. Then one day, asked me point blank if I saw any other kgirls. Wouldn't lie to her and said I had seen one since we started getting heavy. Anger ensued. Had a chance for closure in person though where we talked it through. Parted ways wishing each other the best.
3rd: Ktalk connection. A date to SF. Continued ktalk. A trip to big sur. Then some out of state trips. Really hit it off. She started having harder and harder times balancing work and the relationship. Asked what was our future? Stated I wasn't looking for marriage, but open to something stable. Unfortunately citizenship was a hurdle. She was willing to explore a fake marriage w/ another to stay. But time ran out on the visa. Still keep in touch.
All 3, if I were looking for a "housewife" would probably make me 200% happy. All were incredible individuals who just had bad circumstances that put them into their line of work as a quick way to earn money.
But just as many have warned - the drama is unreal if you decide to engage in a relationship.
My advice:
Be clear to her and yourself what you both want.
Know that both your hearts may still eventually want more whether conscious or not.
Keep communicating.
Address any of either your or her jealousy.
Be clear of whether you will be monogamous.
Keep your own sanity - she is fucking a lot of guys. That fucks with your brain. Very few people are truly ok with that.
You're starting the relationshp fucking - of course you're on the moon. But relationships aren't built on that.
[ Last edited by hkdigweed at 8-5-2023 05:41 ] | |
