Poll Subject: Ever fucked a collegue?  multiple choice : choose no more than 3 options [Show Voters]
Been there, done that...never again.
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Been there, done that...why not?
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No way...too much possible trouble!
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Subject: Ever fucked a collegue?
fredericjeitz
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Post at 15-10-2009 02:44  Profile P.M. 
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Got the chance and actually declined... i now regret it. Going forward if I getr the chance again propably will do it. At the end of the day what is the worst that can happen ? I may have to change jobs, kinda tough at the moment but still we only leave once. From friends experience and from what i see in the forum it always ends bad anyway
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Post at 15-10-2009 06:00  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by fredericjeitz at 15-10-2009 02:44
... the end of the day what is the worst that can happen ? ...

great question and the answer depends on your actual situation - worst case could be quite extreme:

lose good employee
lose own job
divorce
sexual harrassment charge
criminal record / fine or jail

If you're the boss it makes you a bigger target ...

... but I have to say workplace hookups are much more common than you hear about ...




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Post at 19-11-2009 23:20  Profile P.M. 
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Done it and ended up in a relationship, left my wife and then she came back from a trip from Germany with genital herpes! But I wouldnt let that stop me.
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Post at 4-2-2010 18:42  Profile P.M. 
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i dont work in an office environment so its a bit different, i've done it in 2 different places i've worked and sure i'll do it again if she's attractive.
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Post at 4-2-2010 19:33  Profile P.M. 
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Not a good idea. Too much trouble when the affair goes sour. Very rare, in my experience, that girls can
remain friendly when such relationships end.
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Post at 5-2-2010 08:13  Profile P.M. 
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I had the opportunity a few years back, but I declined the offer.  I am just too worried that it will affect my job and I dont want to be booted for that reason.  Dont get me wrong, I am definitely attempted but just too chicken to act on it.
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Post at 5-2-2010 09:45  Profile P.M. 
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If you really fancy her go for it, just remeber that if it doesn't work out that sometime females hold a grudge.  So be certain that both party wanted it.
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Post at 6-2-2010 00:47  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Asslover at 6-2-2009 00:14
I was this close to fucking a collegue yesterday. My rational mind jumped in on time and we didn't go through with it. Luckily she laughed it off as well as I did, that it would be a bad idea since we ...

If both are single ( no relationship ), and both work in a different department ( floor ), if you can handled some office gossip, it's fine.

But if you are married, or in a relationship, there is too much consequences.

[ Last edited by  Weelock at 6-2-2010 04:56 ]
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Post at 6-2-2010 04:53  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 Asslover's post

even worse then banging a colleague, is banging a chick and dumping her.  Then finding out she gets hired by your employer well after the fact. That is quite awkward and really sucks.
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Post at 6-2-2010 18:22  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #4 tonto1509's post

Wow....that sounds like an awesome porno.
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Post at 8-2-2010 20:52  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by pisser at 4-2-2010 19:33
Not a good idea. Too much trouble when the affair goes sour. Very rare, in my experience, that girls can
remain friendly when such relationships end.

yea but i think it all depends on how you end it, i've had 2, and am still friends with both of them, they stop by and acknowledge me 1st if we happen to pass by in the streets sometime, and one of them messaged me on facebook 2 months ago, eventhough i am in a different country atm.
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Post at 9-2-2010 01:20  Profile P.M. 
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I've never done it but the idea really turns me on.
However if I've found my dream job and the company I want to work till retirement, I'd give it a carefull thought.
I don't think I would endanger a dream job for a big turn on.




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Post at 9-2-2010 04:38  Profile P.M. 
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The idea sounds fantastic of banging work colleague but too risky over career. Better get it done with WGs.
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Post at 9-2-2010 08:21  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by mmmconto1 at 9-2-2010 04:38
The idea sounds fantastic of banging work colleague but too risky over career. Better get it done with WGs.

Wise, but too conservative.  Live a little!

The hard part is keeping the boundaries and expectations clear and mature.  Pretty tough to do I admit, so while I encourage others to venture out in the workplace I do understand the restraint.  I think to some degree my sexual success at work has been pure dumb luck.  Still, I have and will do it again!




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Post at 17-3-2010 13:39  Profile P.M. 
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i would but then i own the company aka my wife will soon find out. SO NO WAY!!!
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Post at 18-3-2010 03:15  Profile P.M. 
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oh bros, theres a new girl in the office and she is so good looking i really want to **** her over lunch!!
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Post at 21-3-2010 14:40  Profile P.M. 
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nope, would never do it.  of course i don't have many options as most in my office are near retirement age men. lol.  there are two ladies ,but the risk of losing the job outweighs the hotness.  i guess if they looked like a young jolin tsai i might change my mind.
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Post at 9-4-2010 03:42  Profile P.M. 
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i got quite a few smoking hot coworkers and boy the things i would do to them if i ever had the chance. too bad its just a thought cuz if something bad was to happen it would be some awkward tension between us. i love my job and im not going to let a bitch fuck it up.
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Post at 9-4-2010 09:54  Profile P.M. 
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if this case, better don't do. at the end story will be so long
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Post at 3-5-2010 04:38  Profile P.M. 
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i did it and some time later im living with the girl it was a good idea...
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