Hey, Theoner, welcome to the forum, and sorry about your experience...
Just a suggestion: please avoid copying entire sentences from other people's reports (specifically from this one:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=66999&extra=page%3D1)
It's borderline plagiarism, which isn't cool, and also isn't fun to read the exact same phrases. It's ok to learn how to write from other people's reports, but when writing find your own words, if you want to get Karma (from me at least).