Subject: SeekingArrangment?
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Originally posted by aurufc at 30-7-2017 13:09
blackjack038          31-7-2017 12:04          Acceptance          +3          Out of curiosity aurufic, How much are u sponsoring them monthly in both Australia and HK, if u don't mind i am asking ...

In HK, for both the girls it was HK5k per month, which was the budget I set myself after research, for a minimum of 2 overnights though by treating the girls nicely it probably averaged 3 midweeks a month plus a few full weekends and a couple of long weekends away.  This is across a 5-6 month relationship on a non exclusive basis from their side - as a tip, if your trying to hit your budget (without sounding like you are haggling or being tight) and the girl wants more but you are into her it does work if you throw in a "well I understand this wouldn't be an exclusive thing for you."

Also, in my process the initial "gift" for the 2nd date and an overnight "to check the chemistry" was HK2.5k. How I would approach this is via message after the 1st date by saying that I would like to get to know them more and offer a 2nd date at her discretion if we still got on and both wanted to spend the night together then the gift would be HK2.5k (which I only ever gave in the morning....).  Maybe a bit pricey but it shows intend and by doing by messages I think it is more comfortable for a pure semi-pro and sets the tone that if either of us doesn't want to sleep together, she could walk away or I could decide not to bother for whatever reason.  In my head, if the choice was on my side then I would have gifted 1k anyway for her time though that never happened lol - when at the table you may as well eat!

Remember for me, I spent a lot of time finding the gems (2-3 weeks of chatting/screening before 1st date) so there was an element of trust from their side already.

For the Aussie rates I did 1 at AUD1000 per month for a cutie single mum who was just sick of blokes her own age and the same bizarrely for a gay/straight couple (apparently this is the PC term for lesbians who used to be straight but now they are gay but not bisexual but still need a bit of cock from time to time).  If I ever get the time to go that far back in my punting tales, its a funny story of how they started coming around separately to bitch about the other one which ended up lkie having 2 whingy GFs without the 3somes!!

Edit: meant to say my time in Oz was pre-SA supremacy so I used a site called sugardaddymeet.com

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SA in Vegas

Holy smoke! There is a wide variety of girls available in Vegas. Many of them are latinas and blacks. I would say the ratio of white to latin to black is 1:1:1. There are some stunners and you will be solicited for arrangement when you change your location to Vegas. Happy hunting =)

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jesus christ, 90% of all the girls im meeting are asking $500-$800.....i might just stick with the flushing WGs

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jeffzeke   4-8-2017 08:37  Acceptance  +6   don't give up bro, there are some good ones out there that will be very reasonable.
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Originally posted by kingstada at 2-8-2017 12:20
jesus christ, 90% of all the girls im meeting are asking $500-$800.....i might just stick with the flushing WGs

You have to haggle like in HK. If you go too low, they won't reply back. One asked me for 250 and I got her down to 120. And I got a freebie from another...

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jeffzeke   4-8-2017 08:38  Acceptance  +6   Just mention your price range and they can take it or leave it.




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Very few girls want hook ups or don't care about money. It depends on you. So far I have fucked 3 without "arrangement". Keep in mind that 99% of them do look for financial compensation, especially at Vegas where I am at the moment.

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Freelancer at 30-7-2017 06:38
Some random comments...

SA appears to work better in America. This helps the american members here and you can see from their reports that they have the most success in their country. I don't think i ...

I totally agree with above quote. I did a membership a while back and its very easy to talk to the girls there etc, but especially with the chinese ladies its more about longer term agreements and that means you taking them out for dinner trips and buying LV bags just to spent time with them.......emmmmm duhhh!  F that!!

During this period of membership I had to fly to LA for a business trip and used SA as well!  all amazing hits there and direct and to the point! So I totally agree in the US I would definitely use SA, here in Asia not so.

Funny story, when I checked in my hotel the lady at the front desk was a hot latina and I thought to my self this is going to be a fun trip. Went up my room and started to use SA and searched for the ones in the area where I was staying......then.....I found the Front desk lady on there as well!  needless to say room service became a lot more interesting during my trip.

So US- SA hell ya
Asia- Give it a pass......unless you dont mind spending a shit load of money to buy the girls some LV bags...but i dont need SA to be a dumb ass like that..

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UncleDad   19-8-2017 03:35  Acceptance  +4   That's a report we'd LOVE to see!!! haha
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Reply #26 dabrat's post

Dabrat,

ok you have to do a report on the front desk lady. that is GOLD. put it in the restricted access reports section.
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Thoughts on SA (seekingarrangment) after one year

Some thoughts for discussion after about one year of punting on seekingarrangment (SA).  Not sure if it is OK to bump this old thread, but mods, please adjust accordingly.

1) Combing through profiles is time consuming, but it is worth the effort.  
2) Keep on eye out periodically on the "New Listings" section in the particular city you are interested in.  Also look under the "Recently Active" when searching, as these are the profiles of girls who are more likely to respond.
3) Many of these SA profiles have real-life pictures which can be traced to their social media pages via image searches.  
4) A few girls with GPS (golden pussy syndrome) out there.  They might look tempting, but these girls should be AVOIDED at all costs, they will drain your time and pocketbook!
5) Keep an eye out for poor college students, recent college graduates who have crummy jobs, waitresses, bar-tenders, girls who recently broke up, recently divorced, MILFy type who need some extra $.  These are all excellent demographic segments which I target!  
6) Do not give up on SA in Asia.  I have had some good punts in Singapore, Tokyo, KL, and will be trying HK, Taipei, and others soon. There are not that many listings, but some are quite good, and you probably don't have much competition.
7) SA is HUGE in the US!  Lots more eligible SB's than eligible SD's, so you are in the drivers seat.  I heard the ratio is favorable for punters, maybe 5:1 or 10:1.
8) Lots of city to city variability in the US!
9) Search function is your friend, and you can easily weed out the GPS if you focus on the girls who are looking for a "practical", "minimal", or "negotiable" allowance.
10)  Not surprisingly, if you are polite, respectful, treat girls well, wine and dine them a bit, there are SA girls who may not be too focused on the money.  I've had one such SB, and currently have another one who already mentioned she is not interested in any allowance per-se.  Obviously I lavish them with fancy dinners and drinks which are already quite costly, and will by her some gifts here and there.  There are lots of different sorts of "arrangements", and that's part of the fun!

Party on guys!

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ramont   6-11-2017 15:35  Acceptance  +6   good info
blast77   6-11-2017 15:23  Acceptance  +6   Thanks for the tips
aurufc   6-11-2017 15:20  Acceptance  +4   Well said sir! Looking forward to see how you go in HK 7 Taipei!
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Yes Dabrat, share the story, fa all y'all ;)

I think i was close to this happening, but i was too pussy to push for It.

Last year in KL, one of the front desk girl in my hotel, a local indian Malaysia,  in her 30's, Beautiful face,
Came up one night to give me towels i asked for, let's say i was not appropriatly dressed, and she kept staring where she shouldn't. Awkward exchange of smile.
After that she several times came up on evening, asking me phone charger, and bring it back,
ask me if i need towel, the job of maids, start conversation..
And while i made sure to be properly dressed, everytime she looked down with a smile.

I was not sure what to make of it, and i was too concerned about my privacy, but that fantasy was alive in front of me, and i didn't do anything about it.

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jeffzeke   7-11-2017 11:25  Acceptance  +7   great story! You should go for it next time!




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Did any receive that promo offer?
50% on SA membership with promo code or e-mail link


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jetsetting2much   9-11-2017 02:14  Acceptance  +20   Nice. But only works for new or expired VIP accounts.
jeffzeke   7-11-2017 11:26  Acceptance  +8   very good value if true!




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Yes it's working, no matter the membership package chosen.
The promo code is i believe not nominative, try by yourselves those who want.

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ramont   8-11-2017 18:48  Acceptance  +10   Worked for me. Thanks
jetsetting2much   8-11-2017 05:40  Acceptance  +5   code didn't work for me. i'm up for renewal.




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Reply #31 blast77's post

Just worked for me using Sa5201111

6 months at half price - US30 per month is good value.

Great find blast77 - thanks but goddamn you as was trying to give SA a rest for a while lol!!!

Edit:

Naturally I've done absolutely fuck all at work this afternoon apart from browse on SA - goddamn you again blast77!! lol

I've been doing some research in Taipei and 2 girls have asked me for ID on sirgirl.com to send photos to me - any bros know what this site is as can't figure out if it is a FB type of site of a SA one?

Edit2:

Now fairly sure its a scam based out of Taiwan - "upgrade so I can send you nude private pictures - no I don't use WeChat or Line" etc etc blah blah

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Macau81   8-11-2017 18:58  Acceptance  +5   then ask for LINE. if they say they dont have LINE, they r 100% lying.
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I will need confirmation but i think the promo code works when not on active upgraded membership yet/anymore.

@Aurufc

Yep It's fake,
The website setting is very familiar, similar to some fake websites in China,  with same display used already a long time ago.




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I don't have SA and the promo code worked for me.
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jetsetting2much          8-11-2017 05:40          Acceptance          +5          code didn't work for me. i'm up for renewal.

Correction: the code does work.  It failed me before because my VIP membership hadn't expired yet.  Sure enough, after my VIP just happened to lapse today, I resubscribed with the Promo Code and the 50% off discount worked!  Cheers to Bro, blast77!  Saved me a bundle of $$.





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QUOTE:
Originally posted by aurufc at 8-11-2017 14:03
Naturally I've done absolutely fuck all at work this afternoon apart from browse on SA

Given that I've been lured by blast77 back onto SA in HK for the 1st time in over 2 years...........any bros can share what the rates are like at the minute for a per meet allowance or a couple of times a month allowance?

Don't want to set the bar too high or allow jeffzeke to set the pace lol :-)

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dang, I missed the promo code party? Its expired
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Feeling left out.

The seeking arrangement scene sounds quite interesting, as the punt itself has a certain build up to it.  From making simple hello's to getting to know the lady over the course of days of weeks, to finally meeting her and enjoying the time together.  It probably makes the meet more relaxed and intimate and perhaps more enjoyable.

I am afraid that there is no possibility to enjoy a SA for somebody who has a SO, there are too many risks involved.  I would never even consider the risk to try......feeling left out.
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I’ve had no luck. Every connection has gone one of the following directions:

- she wants 15k plus to meet or 2k plus just to get dinner
- obviously fake pics
- just asks me to add her on wechat, obviously just a wg, probably fake pics
- long ramble conversation with a younger girl who is very noncommittal about sex - wants to ‘date’ for a while (ie get cash) before sex, if she’s comfortable
- is unattractive
- wants a boyfriend who pays her, rather than a SD who is in the drivers seat

Will be deleting account soon

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Today’s events

- girl cancelled lunch 15 mins before
- two girls chatted for a while before I sent them links showing they had stolen pics from web cam models

How is the market this bad? HK is an amazing place to eat cheap, but eating well is almost impossible. In Canada and the States, SA and back pages can produce legitimately super hot women, in HK I still haven’t found a single girl who was a true (or approaching) 10. Macau yes, but its pricey and often cold service. The only great service I’ve had here was Hot at One Victoria (and she’s not very pretty) and a wg in her late 30s. One trip back to Toronto and the only two women I saw were flawless performance givers.

I’m starting to assume there’s a higher end market here that I just haven’t been given the password to.

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