condoms help but not that much with herpes. isn't from BBBJ but from contact with the herpes sores.

not so concerned about gonorrhea, that can be cured

I fear that some of you have very vivid imaginations and fears!  The risk of Gonorrhea from oral sex is infintissemely small. For Your man with herpes take an aciclovir tablet once a day for a year you should
have no re-occurrence. You Cannot cure it but it should remain in remission, there are no general side effects with this. I have known many guys who have fucked their way through Asia, without a condom,
and got nothing as much as a sniffle. What can be common is Candida albens or thrush, which at worst is very painful, and is often mistaken for more serious diseases. If you are unfortunate enough to get
this dont bother with creams or ointments, just make sure that every time you take a piss you ensure your bell end is dried, and if you can stand it peel your foreskin back and leave it like that, this will cure even the worst cases as the fungus needs moisture to thrive.

You are not allowed to discuss medical issues and remedies in this forum … precisely for the things you just advised