Poll Subject: Have you ever consider to offer your wife or GF for money to other men?  single choice [Show Voters]
No, I have not
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No, I have not and never will
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Yes, I have but my wife GF would kill me if she knew
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Yes, but no other men would want her
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Yes, I have thought about it
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Yes, I have thought about it and told her
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Yes, I have and even arranged it.
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Yes, I do it al the time in fact I encourage her to meet men for money
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Subject: Have you ever consider to offer your wife or GF for money to other men?
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Have you ever consider to offer your wife or GF for money to other men?

A though that came to my mind with my first girlfriend, actually after i visited some working girl.
I never stopped thinking about it and with my current wife arranged it, discussed it someday when she was really drunk.
I thought she would forget being so drunk, but after few days she came walking into the living room in high heels and sexy outfit and asked if this would want men to fuck her for money. I snapped up my camera took picuters and posted online an add, the next weekend four men fucked het for money. I was in the living room while she went with the guys upstairs. I can tell you the sex life between us has improved enormously.

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Post at 8-10-2009 09:33  Profile P.M. 
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I would sell my own asshole, soul and life before any shit like that happening.

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Reply #1 alex67's post

Pretty brave bro - saw an opening and walked through it - well done indeed!  





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Post at 8-10-2009 10:55  Profile P.M. 
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It'd be funny if you found a report about your wife from those guys on the forum.

I think it'd be hard for me to remain psychologically stable if I knew that my SO was currently in my room being screwed as I sat waiting.

My SO certainly wouldn't accept.me screwing 4 girls in our room.

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Reply #1 alex67's post

What is it about pimping your wife that's erotic?  Is it because it's such a big taboo to break?  Or do you get a vicarious experience knowing she's having a slutty time?

I agree with D'Art, kudos for making your thing happen.  Not my thing, but glad you found yours AND that it's worked out well for you.  Crossing the line of a sexual taboo is a big step, keeping one's relationship functioning after is an even biggerone.




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Originally posted by TheButler at 9-10-2009 10:39
What is it about pimping your wife that's erotic?  ...

Yes I certainly think it's partly the forbidden-fruit of breaking a taboo

but more deeply I see a competitive aspect - having something other guys desire, controlling their access to her, and seeing them handing over their hard cash for something you get for free (sort of anyway) ... you get to use her ... but when it's their turn she's using them ... exploiting their base instincts to get money from them ...

all that plus the voyeuristic stimulation of the sex act itself.  

Anyone see anything else in it???




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Post at 9-10-2009 21:22  Profile P.M. 
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I've never considered the $ aspect of it; but I can see how it would be very erotic to share your SO with another couple. If it's OK with both members, I don't see what's the big deal; and in fact, it's quite common, tho not nearly as common as cheating. So why not both fool around so that there's no cheating or dishonesty involved? And if it's together with another couple or group, all the better! I've had a lot of relationships that probably would have lasted a lot longer if we'd both been screwing other people.

Also, it's a common male fantasy to want to see your SO be fucked by some other guy, tho few guys have the courage to see it through - tho I bet a lot of wives would welcome the idea!

But as for having the wife screw other guys for $: it all depends on whether she was in to it, and if the relationship could take the emotional strain; when it comes to sex and "my woman", guys are not completely sane, and living off the wife's wages would be difficult for almost any guy.

This is one of those things that comes down to your personal moral code; when it comes to sex, it's definitely not a one-size-fits-all world.




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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Marsupial at 9-10-2009 21:22
Also, it's a common male fantasy to want to see your SO be fucked by some other guy ...

I very much doubt that. And how could you possibly know? I can't even imagine married guys discussing such a subject. And if you're talking about wife-swopping, I think the fantasy is for the guy to fuck the other guy's wife, not having his own wife fucked.




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Post at 11-10-2009 19:33  Profile P.M. 
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alex67...... good for you bro for finding your cup of tea but is not mcot and not here to judge you.

Alex67 do you tell her when you go punting?
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Reply #8 Lenny's post

Nah - I met a couple once - she wanted to do me, but on condition her husband was watching - apparently he liked to watch.




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Reply #8 Lenny's post

When talking about behavior, it's very easy to mistake one's personal likes and dislikes for what is or isn't common or normal, and I'm no doubt guilty of that as well. I can't quote any hard figures, so no, I don't know how common this is.  However, the internet if full of vids of guys getting off on watching some other dude fuck the wife. Tho I'm sure most are fake, the very fact that these vids exist testifies to the existence of this fantasy. But yes, "common" could very well be an overstatement. But then I did say 'fantasy'. We all entertain mental scenarios of acts we would never carry out in real life. I've heard many women say they masturbate to rape fantasies, but that they would find it horrible to really be raped. They explain that in a rape fantasy, it's still the woman who is really in control editing out all the unpleasant aspects of a real brutal rape. The same is true of these fantasies of watching the SO be fucked; you can mentally edit out all the ego-threatening aspects of sitting there while the wife/gf moans on the end of some other guy's Johnson.

But I really have to disagree about wife swapping. Sure the point is having access to another beautiful woman, but having one's own woman participate and enjoy the sex is definitely part of it. This is something I have talked about with other guys and women, and sex forums are full of discussions of this topic and ads for couples looking for other couples. There are many, many sites dedicated to the"swinging" lifestyle. If a guy was interested in just fucking other women, why discuss swapping at all? - certainly just cheating is a lot simpler logistically. But then this is probably much more prevalent among couples who have been married for many years, still in love, and who want to share sexual adventures together.

You're probably a very possessive guy Lenny, which is certainly the default male attitude towards women, and that's cool; but there are lots of behaviors people would/will gladly participate in if they could do what they secretly wanted without fear of blame or embarrassment.

I have always wondered tho, to what extent sexual jealousy is a learned behavior.

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"I have always wondered tho, to what extent sexual jealousy is a learned behavior."

Interesting thought.  Most would likely argue that sexual jealousy is an instinct more than a learned behavior, something that is very territorial and has its roots in infancy.  Kids seem to have a natural tendency to want to possess or control access to their parents, as a competitive, advantageous thing.  Certainly avoiding sharing a parental resource would aid in a child's likelihood of survival.  That same possessivenessgrows and expands in later life into something we direct at our partners.

Attachment based parenting would argue the opposite: that it's not instinct but insecurity learned at an early age, that drives this possessive streak.

Certainly any behavior learned at an early enough age is going to look like an instinct more than something learned later in life.




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isn't this what we call swinging. sharing your SO with other SO but instead not getting paid for it. There are plenty of people who do that
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swinging? mmm i cant bare watchin my wife/gf getting fucked by another man.
no thanks
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hell no.  i wouldnt expose my woman to any risk of catching STDs, a beating or anything else that remotely puts her in harms way.  i would rather die.




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I have never even thought about offering them for money.. it's almost sacreligious to do so...
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what.... no way...
didn't want to do
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Post at 19-4-2010 00:36  Profile P.M. 
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No i haven't


But it raises interesting issues if the issue was turned around - if our SO was asked to offer us for money to sleep with women..and how this fits in with the mere fact that we're all punters here saying we wouldn't do it - aren't we hypocritical in a sense that we want to protect our SO's but if we wanted to do all we can to protect them, then how comes we are doing something that can hurt them in serious way - emotionally, that is?
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swinging is not my thing and never will be...
i'd never sell my gf or wife out like that no matter what the circumstances are..
when i do get a gf.. which i do have now.. she will be clean and pure =)
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has anyone experienced swinging? i have been hearing about them a lot more nowadays. i guess i should start a POLL on that, see if I can
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