Reply #1 nairesu's post
Thanks for the several reviews earlier this year. Read all of them while browsing for Tokyo topics. I think your experience can be improved if you try to take an opportunity to accept the culture of Japanese girls, rather than rage against their off-putting mannerisms.
From your reviews, it doesn't seem like you speak Japanese and aren't familiar with Japanese culture beyond a superficial level. That's understandable, though. But here are some relevant points, which may all seem obvious, but will be expanded upon:
Japan is an extremely patriarchal society compared to the West. Even though women are employed and have virtually the same legal rights are Western women, their de facto place in society is vastly different.
Sex and sex-adjacent work is extremely common throughout Japan, with a large minority of girls having had engaged in it at some point, whether through relatively vanilla girls bars and compensated dating all the way through JAV and traditional prostitution.
Japanese are big on hierarchy and rules. It's baked into the culture, language, education, society, business, etc.
These points matter to the average punter because you're trying to fuck a girl you've just met, who's grown up from birth in this society, whose rawest exposure to the West so far was a family vacation to Hawaii on a JTB tour. If you don't at least attempt to understand where they're coming from, of course you will be befuddled, annoyed, or frustrated at their behavior and demeanor.
First, these girls - by and large - are at least going to pay lip service to following the rules, even though there is nobody from the agency there to monitor them when you're together in the room. This applies not only to the secret option, but to the mouthwash and shower. The agency provides them with the number-tagged toiletry pouch for a reason; no doubt they are instructed to use the mouthwash and shower wash. Some girls carry the options menu on a laminated card. I've even seen some girls bring one of those agency-issued body towels with them, even when they're being delivered to a five-star hotel. This adherence to rules applies not only to girls new to sex work, but also veterans. If they have experience at delivery sex shops catering to Japanese, they will be even more familiar with these rules, as the THC codex of rules are a slightly modified version of the standard deriheru rulebook.
So, if you meet a girl like this who is reluctant to deviate from the rules and/or you didn't book the IBJ option (a few girls will ignore the option even if you booked it), it may be wise just to use the mouthwash and then rinse with water after. Though, the mouthwash is pretty standard across East Asia. For example, in my experience, it's standard for Korean shops in the US (aka blue toast for the common blue color of Listerine brand), as well as establishments in Korea, some of which provide disposable toothbrushes and big toothpaste tubes.
Second, despite what you see in porn or the blaring truck ads in Shibuya and Shinjuku, Japanese women are not as sexually liberated as Western women. In the Japanese market, sex is conducted through companies that deliver or have their own premises. Indies are rare. Or negotiated hush-hush between the kyabakura client/sugar papa and the girl, and conducted in love hotels. There are no walk-ups, line-ups, or fishbowls. The few strip clubs and peep shows that do exist are merely fringe exceptions to the rule.
Further, the "delicate" and "shy" stereotype, which is a turn-off for you, could be their actual personality, or it could be their reaction to a society that doesn't publicly approve female promiscuity and sexual openness (not that any society really does). Also, young women occupy the lowest rung in the ladder of traditional employment. Most of the girls in THC are/were employed in part-time or contract jobs as opposed to full employment, or came from lower-paying jobs in fields like cosmetology. From birth, they've been in the least powerful position, from family to school to the workplace, so they have conformed to defer to authority and mask their own opinions. God knows when these girls are with their girlfriends they can be opinionated, stubborn, and outspoken.
So if you encounter a frigid one or a starfish or someone who wants to turn down the lights, you could try to find how to best accommodate them and make them feel more comfortable.
Finally, you should try to ease up with the reaction to turning down the lights: the insistence that "it's my show". Paying for a prostitute, regardless of her provenance, is not a ticket to do whatever you want. Probably even less so in the West than it is in Japan. Yes, there are some agencies and places where this attitude is more acceptable (for example, try the face-fucking agency in Ikebukuro, but even there it depends on the girl - I had one girl who threw up repeatedly as she deep-throated me, while another kept moving my hand away from her bangs). You mentioned this trip to Japan was your first escort experience, so it's understandable.
Also, note about Chloe. Girls like her are professionals. They've been in the industry for years and have become jaded or inured to the process, or are familiar with the nature of sex work in Japan and have definite financial goals. They want the reviews in order to advance or keep their position, which translates directly to more income from a fuller schedule. They will calculatingly list the prices of various options even as they're sucking you off and will never give out freebies or overlook the menu. I think out of all the girls at THC, she's probably the worst in this regard, not able to mask it well with good GFE.
Anyway, the other substance of your reviews is fine. For example, Maria really is a butterface and there are many girls who just aren't that good at sex. Cheers
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