Seeking in the US
Originally posted by Tehec at 19-6-2023 06:59
I’ve heard that seeking is rly popping in the US where u can score some absolute gems like college girls looking for some money. But it works in like a sugar baby style in which you pay them for a fu ...
My experience is only within the US.
I used to travel for work a lot and Seeking was great to find potentials in cities I frequented.
I do have this to say:
Pool size varies based on city.
Scammers increase with Pool size, so be prepared to do your homework.
Larger cities also have a higher chance for the SB to be a WG. Some will either out themselves during off-site chat, but usually you can catch hints based on how they phrase things.
Do not communicate over the site, since they definitely monitor the chats and moderator is not consistent. I got a warning when it was the SB that brought up the term PPM!?
Try to avoid paying up front.
Las Vegas: Some gems, but also scammers and WGs. First one I met was a scammer and second one I met was a WG who just got out.
LA: Lots of POTs and hidden gems
OC: Same as LC
SF/SJ: A higher percentage of GPS... even for the fugly ones.
Seattle: Ok
SD: Ok
Tips that worked for me.
A. Be up front about what activities you are looking for and don't fall for promises of 'after we get to know each other better'.
B. I always state allowance (the term used in this circle) starts after the sex does.
C. Some ladies won't have sex at the first meet (see B), but if you think it's a possibility, have the first meet near a hotel. Ideally a hotel restaurant/bar that's decent.
D. Have a Plan B in case the SB flakes on you, especially for the first date.
E. My profile stated I travel for business and was looking for occasional dates, so the SBs I met all knew it wasn't going to be a regular schedule. Some were okay with once a month or every two months. I was definitely the side hustle, and I'm find with that. |
