desthrowmeaway
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12-5-2023 12:00 |
my 2 cents
Like what eatmoose said about what saylr said: "If this isn't happening for you, go back to the drawing board and ask yourself why." - this speaks volumes to me.
I've been in multiple long term relationships, and the one thing I've learned is that the problem is usually you. Not saying the girls don't have problems. They surely have their insecurities and all, but at the end of the day, you need to be ready for that LTR. This means a lot of self-sacrifice and being willing to work through things with her. This also means working on yourself right now to get to a point where your problems don't hold you back from moving forward when things go south.
I definitely second what others have said about social connections. You need both. Working on dating apps to try to find that needle in a haystack and also getting real life interaction if that is running dry. Sometimes, it's as simple as making a habit of learning a new hobby. I tried rock climbing once and bumped into a random cute girl while waiting my turn. Nothing came out of it, but just chatting with her felt like there was some possibility there. If I was not already there with someone I liked, I would have asked for her number.
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