Reply #1 sentry's post
All are doing punting for various reasons and especially those “married.”
Those that are married and stay have their reason but the reason is the same for punting they just got other things in their life. The question for everyone personally is cost / reward to stay in marriage, leave.
You staying out of duty, no kids why?
Staying for cost of divorce to you?
I smell you are staying as she supports you, that is fine and 
All or any totally reasonable, I think you just like this as it has happened to you more than once, milk it
 and saving $$$$$
Some like variety, some like the search and score, some like the pretend intimacy. What’s not to like got wife, got job and got love, got hot intimacy and and you will move along when the time comes.
Or if she is special can you bear to lose and be back to mongering in your 50s dreaming of rediscover that magic wife who’d be in her 30s but instead paying for a false and a few K per month.
No wrong answer just make sure you are sure you don’t want her, what’s in it for her? Who’s to say she do t got three to four guys like you on the hook waiting for any to take her in  | |
