sentry
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29-5-2019 20:10 |
Thanks for everyone sharing their 2 cents.
First of all I want to clarify I have no intention of marrying her and she has no intention of staying in Shenzhen forever. So we are just enjoying the moment. Second, no money has been involved since we started seeing each other outside the spa in HK. Third I want make it clear that my wife and I have not had sex for 4 years now and the marriage happened not because I proposed to her, but because she kind of forced me to get hitched.
This girl I met is really different in many ways. Yes she was a working girl. But she shared her past with me. What really touched me last week was she showed me her wounds from her wrist when she nearly took her own life at her lowest point but she made it through and is now quite well off. When she showed me her wounds, I also showed her mine as I also nearly took my own life a few years ago and I showed her my wounds. We hugged each other and shared that sadness promising each other we would never give in and stay strong no matter what.
What has happened since we both told our mums that we are together and they both understand and approve. Even her aunt knows I am married but asked me to treat her well and don’t hurt her. Like I said it will just be a chapter in my life but I want this to be a happy chapter and treasure the memories we share together.
Two things I also want to make clear, I have no intention of divorcing my wife but there is no love left, and I have no intention of throwing my life away by trying to marry this girl now as it will be a messy ending. I just want to enjoy the moment! | |
| theworm |
29-5-2019 23:41 |
Acceptance +5 |
since you got it all worked out, then go for it, good luck bro |
| porkchops |
30-5-2019 00:26 |
Acceptance +10 |
Thanks for sharing, but regardless of your current affair: what makes you stay with your wife? Kids? |
| doghead |
30-5-2019 03:36 |
Acceptance +4 |
Emotional turmoil/depression too? U really hv to take control of ur life. Re-evaluate everything. |
| koroquet |
30-5-2019 08:23 |
Acceptance +3 |
Savor every moment. |
| Freelancer |
1-6-2019 07:39 |
Acceptance +1 |
Why not take her as your mistress? |
| jeffzeke |
2-6-2019 08:13 |
Acceptance +10 |
what you have now is fun, but likely not sustainable. So the "messy ending" is probably inevitable sooner or later. |
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