austin821
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29-5-2019 06:47 |
I think you have it good and you should keep things on the home front just as they are.
1 You know your wife and she looks after you and is not out to ruin your life.
2 You are sleeping in separate rooms and that's a plus, You get the bed to yourself, can set the aircon to the temp you like and no one to interupt your sleep 
3 I'm sure your wife would not be pissed if she found out your mongering. ( she would if you get into a relationship though )
The things I would change is;
Don't see this girl as often and start punting with others more often.
The girl you have found is giving you that feeling when you go on a holiday and love it and say to yourself " I want to quit my job and move here "
Fucking up your life with your wife will bring much more hardship compared to the nice feelings you have now with this girl. Just remember you had the same feelings for your wife that you are now experiencing with this girl when you started out with her !
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| theworm |
29-5-2019 09:52 |
Acceptance +5 |
EXACTLY, well said. Been there, done that. |
| jeffzeke |
29-5-2019 10:31 |
Acceptance +20 |
wise words, thanks! |
| Randal |
29-5-2019 17:20 |
Acceptance +1 |
This |
| xooxer |
30-5-2019 00:00 |
Acceptance +3 |
Excellent |
| ernieb |
1-6-2019 22:56 |
Acceptance +5 |
Good advice |
| pipolaki |
6-6-2019 18:49 |
Acceptance +4 |
Good mid life crisis advisor !!! |
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