Reply #8 jeffzeke's post
Life is very ironic for us men.
We spend our younger years trying to figure out to chase and keep the attractive (or at least a homely one) women. Coz our seduction skills are so terrible, it takes a lot of luck to get a gf...then when we get someone resembling a gf, we do a lot of fumbling around coz our 'make love' skills inspire our girls to write all those articles on why sex sucks.
Then via a lot of trial and error (at least for me), one achieves the unworldly seduction skills which leads to a lot of sex with women who almost too easily become too attached to you because your make-love skills are above average.
Ironically then all these skills leads for some of us to marriage and a different phase of life where our hard-earned seduction skills become to atrophy. Sometimes I just so tempted by your SA reports to give it a hand just to soothe my ego (showing seduction and make-love skills to some young woman) then I stop myself by reminding myself that I am married.
Now I just resign myself to using my seductions skills to get great service and deals from customer service girls/women.
Anyway to the OP's questions :
a) Do a lot of cardio to keep a good stamina level and do a lot of squats (quadriceps) exercises as I can attest that squats exercises gives me a good testosterone boost. Weight lifting magazines always emphasize doing weekly leg squats as part of the weight lifting regimen. If you lift weights without doing the leg squats, your gain in muscle will not be great and fast as it is with getting the testosterone boost from squats.
b) When practicing your seduction/make-love skills with civis/Sugar babies, sometimes it is best to take it slowly. Use all your senses with a deep focus as you stroke, touch, smell, kiss, etc the girl. Figure out where are all of her 'buttons' that will cause her to figuratively 'melt' in your arms. Don't aim to get to FS right away or even a BJ...make her 'melt' completely first...then she will basically ask/beg you go further. Many times it was the woman who asked about going to a hotel if I did it right.
Eventually in time, things will move faster with practice on each successive woman.
But there is one caveat you should always keep in mind. Each woman is very different from the previous ones that you may have met. One woman may be convulsing in deep orgasms just by blowing on her clit for 1 mins and another may only have a light orgasm after you had DATY her for almost half hour. Don't feel disheartened about your skills if you meet the 2nd one, just keep listening and going. For that girl, she will still be happy if you give her an orgasm even it is not earth-shaking and may fall in love with you because you were willing to put in the great effort to make her happy.
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