I'm not saying ignore desires mate... I am a hedonist at heart man. Lol. Eat, drink and be merry (includes f*cking), for tomorrow we may die. Lol. Life is but a dream, live it to its fullest! All good mate. I'm such a bastard. Lol. But I also know that that's not what makes me me. I am a huge advocate of skipping ego and focusing on self actualization because you'll also find that that's when your ego will really get fed.
Of course there are. I played a lot of sports growing up. I was never really good... Just good enough to make the team and ride the pine. No way I was going to make it to the pros. It was about setting personal bests. It's like golf. No such thing as a perfect game (18 shots for 18 holes). No one will perFect it. But it's about getting better, honing your skills, and beating your last score. I've always loved by a single mantra. Always Be Better. Be a better human, be better at what I do, yadda yadda yadda. We'll never be perfect mate. But it feels d*mn good when you are able to surpass your previous self.
Comparing yourself to others is an act of futility. There will always be someone smarter, faster, bigger, blah blah blah.... It's about becoming the best version of you. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Don't compare with other people. Lebron James might be the best basketball player in the world right now... But... He's also a bit of a pr*ck. He's also still trying to shine in the shadow of those who came before him.
Focus on becoming a better you, be confident (not arrogant), and the women will follow. People think that women want aggressive guys.. especially young people. In reality, it's because people don't know what it means to be an assertive gentleman.
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