Reply #10 hcnova's post
Obsession with sex: Because sex is great. It feels good physically, you get dopamine and seratonin spikes, increased oxytocin...It's all good. What's not to like? lol
Paying for sex: Because it's easy. Paying for sex is like eating out. Price ranges vary, quality varies, and sometimes you find some pretty good places. But in terms of satisfaction, it's entirely different than a home cooked meal.
Boasting about sexual conquests: While much of that is from media, it is true that sexual conquests and exploits are frequently used as a measurement of a guy's manliness, much like the 'bigger d*ck' competitions. It's superficial, it's juvenile, and it shows how us men aren't very much more developed than our neanderthal ancestors.
Laughing at male virgins: My friends and I have never laughed at a male virgin. I dated a lot in high school and college, for me it was a choice not to have sex. I didn't start until after 3rd year, when I felt that I was ready / comfortable. And see above....neanderthals... all of us. remember? lol
Power and validation: This is why, on Maslow's hierarchy of needs, most people don't get beyond ego. Getting your ego fed is great. Buy a bigger house, become a gym rat for a better physique, drive a nicer car, have a harem of pretty girls following you around so you feel like a rap star. But it's all superficial. Self actualization / self fulfillment (I don't mean masturbation. lol) is actually what it's all about. Learning to find validation and feeling powerful because you are comfortable with yourself, have confidence in who you are.
I apologise if it seems like I'm pontificating. And I'm not saying DON'T go out and sow those wild oats and f*ck random women til you're blue in the face and not in the balls. Everyone on this site are hobbyists in the punt. I'm not judging. I'm really not. We all need to try things and journey on our own roads to find who we are meant to be. I applaud that.
All I'm saying is that if you think that punting is going to solve your problems.... I have my doubts about that.
Good luck mate. And when you do find some nice, delicious WGs.... remember to report. MUWHAHAHAHA.
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