I appreciate your advice, but I think what I'm looking for now is a solution to my issue. I know I shouldn't blame anyone, in fact I am grateful for my family, but that doesn't change the fact that I lack the sexual experience, prowess and dominance that I desire. If sex isn't a solution, why are people so obsessed with it? Why are people paying for it? Why are people boasting their sexual conquests? Why do we laugh at male virgins? Sex does give men the power and validation that men desire. At least that's what I believe.
Loving myself is good, but that will breed complacency. I know personal growth is important, I work out, eat clean and read a lot. But sexual experience and prowess is a key component that's still missing in my growth plan. And I'm struggling to find ways to complete this puzzle. | |
