Going to a service provider for sex satisfies only one thing. The physical need to f*ck. As a 20 odd year old, you're already virile. I won't say anything about dominance because we are all different. Some people are more dominant, others are less dominant. Some people are more submissive, others are less submissive. And I think that's where you might be going about it wrong and why you're not finding it satisfying. Sex isn't like a career where you endeavour to become. Yes, we want to learn and get better, but unless you're a porn star, sex is about being.
Do you play sports? When you're in competition, during a match. You're not thinking about footwork, or technique, or what your hair looks like or if your posture is good. Because you're in the moment, in the zone. Making love is the same thing. It's about celebrating your love with someone thru intimate connection.
What kind of "satisfaction" are you looking for b the way? Can you expand on what you mean by that?
~UD | |
