Originally posted by soundwave at 17-12-2017 21:34
Recently I've been finding myself thinking of a particular WG, whom I have frequented quite allot recently. I think that I may have fallen in love with her, which I know is strange. As I have had qu ...
In Macau I met a WG, I wasn't in love with her but I became attached to her because she gave me some attention and in the end I got her wechat. She told me she wanted out and how she was sick of the biz. I actually asked a lot of the veteran Bros here on the forum for their advice and they told me it wasn't worth it for many and all of the reasons already mentioned. I already knew the bros were right but I felt I had to walk the path.
She wanted 4k USD which I ended up giving her and she did leave the biz and go home and she wanted to get training for some hair salon crap ( yeah right) 
I know I lied to myself thinking I would have a chance with her, so I sent her flowers and Valentine's gifts etc. She sent me pics back with her gifts etc. I was amused and kind of felt o maybe I do have a gf.
Finally I was like let's meet in person and see if we really have something. She agreed and I flew to Vietnam and brought her gifts like perfume, an I phone x and Huda eyeliner. I told her where and when I would be and told her to meet me.
Then I'm there in my 5 star hotel room and tell her to meet me and she says she sick and cant make it. Finally I get it out of her that she is still in her hometown and not in HCM like she told me she would be.
I was furious. I flew God knows how many miles to meet her and she had no intention of meeting me. She only wanted to meet so I would give her the gifts.
I was definitely pissed at her but on the last day , I realized I saw so many red flags and chose to ignore them. In the end I was pissed that I wasn't honest with myself about what I wanted with her.
In the end I just wanted exclusive rights to bang her but kept the fantasy going in my head that we had something.
It wasn't all a loss, I did some research banging some Viet chicks (have to post those reports still) and spent a lot of time with an old friend of mine who turns out fell for me and wanted to make out with me. Kind of cray how that ended up.
I think in closing be honest with yourself and separate reality from fatasy. Also I thank Uncle dad and obe and all the other bros who warned me. In the end they were the ones that I could count on the most for their sound advice.
Now what to do about my friend who still wants to do me. 
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