Original Post
zebrazebra

4-7-2018 21:47


Great thread and great responses from the bros.

Like Marcade said, there's a fine distinction between having feelings for a WG vs. entering a committed GF/BF relationship with them. I'm a sensitive fucker so I have feelings for my WGs all the time (at least the ones who deliver the GFE).   But I know the boundaries and have not pursued any committed relationships with them.

After some introspection I realized that the reason I am so obsessed with sex is not because I'm a horny fucker, but mainly because I desperately seek emotional intimacy with a girl, and sadly, that's something I've never really experienced in my life, ever (even after a few relationships, all of which didn't end well), hence why GFE is so important.  

But at best, it's a show, and the girl is still seeing other clients, and you have to ask yourself does she love you or your money?  It's easier to let go of a girl in your mind when you see it that way...

Even in civvie couples, girls want their men to be tall, rich, and handsome, have a house and car... etc. Hard to find girls who aren't materialistic these days.

Because most WGs make the decision to enter the profession for economic reasons, it's logical that if you are rich enough, and are seeking a relationship with her, it's likely she will accept as it make sense economically and both parties get what they seek. This is how most marriages work. I remember reading something in a MGTOW forum about how the only people who are unconditionally loved are women and children...

Funny how sex is cheap and easy to get, but finding a girl who loves you (instead of your wallet) is much harder to obtain.

If a girl genuinely loves you for yourself, refer to what everyone before me said... if you want to enter a committed relationship with her, can you be okay with her having sex with 10+ guys a day as it's her job? If she decides to quit the profession for your relationship, can you accept her past?

Something I wanted to add to the bit about her having trust issues is that she may fear you will fall for another WG... since you fell for her in the first place.  You have to be honest with yourself too, will you keep having sex with WGs after entering a committed relationship with this girl? What happens if you fall for another WG?

Whatever happens in your situation, I wish you the best.

[ Last edited by  zebrazebra at 4-7-2018 22:54 ]

UsernameTimeCreditsReason
Pinkpuffy69 5-7-2018 08:41 Acceptance +3 I have same problem.
koroquet 5-7-2018 08:42 Acceptance +3 Well said and all too true.
Marcade 5-7-2018 21:02 Acceptance +3


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