Love comes in all forms, shapes, and sizes. I won't say whether or not your feelings for this person is real or not. It's not up to me to decide that. However, there are things that you need to keep in consideration if you're truly going to head down this path.
1. WGs almost always have trust issues. Half of their clients are cheating on someone. So they almost always view relationships in a different light.
2. When you just start dating. Do you expect her to stop working? How do you feel about sharing her with other men?
3. Will you at some point expect her to stop? Are you willing/able to pay for her living expenses?
4. Many WGs are used to fast money. Easy come easy go, louboutin, apple, LVs. Is your chica one of those? Are you willing/able .... See points 2 and 3 again
5. How accepting are you of her and her profession? It's one thing that you SAY you know her in ethos way NOW... What happens if you bring her to your office party and boss/manager recognises her as someone they've spent time with before? Or a client? Or some collaborator? Or some family member? Are you okay with rumours and gossip?
You don't have to answer me, I'm nobody in this situation. Means nothing to me how you feel about it one way or another. I'm merely pointing out patterns I've observed over the years for you to consider. I hope all of us are able to find love. Wherever it may be in whatever form it comes in. So, if this really is love, I wish you luck mate.
~UD | |
