Reply #1 jeffzeke's post
@jeffzeke - first & foremost, thank you for writing this up!
I've always been a "book an hour" kind of guy, and tried my best not to think about all the guys that were there before me.
Lately, though, I've been struggling with this hobby - even with good sex, I've started to realize there is an emotional aspect to it that I really like. I like the conversation, I want to spend a bit of time getting to know the girl -- my personal experience lately has been that it leads to much better GFE. One of the reasons I like bars like Brix, Beach Club, etc, is that I get a chance to talk to the girl for a bit and see if there is a connection, and on my last trip (KUL & SIN), I ended up doing multiple days with girls I met, which turned out to be a lot of fun!
I've not tried SA, although I have set up an account. I guess as a married guy I worry a bit about the semi-pros.... I worry that I might fall or get caught up in something that jeopardizes my marriage (although, some days I wonder why I am.... LOL!!).
One of the other challenges is that I already feel like I spend a TON of time on this hobby - reading reviews, scouting for each city I visit, arranging stuff, etc, and the thought of spending a ton of time on a girl only to have her flake and leave me where I end up having to go pro anyway is another thing.
Anyway, thank you again for writing this up! I'm starting to try other things (overnights, etc.) and so maybe it's time to try SA! | |
