Original Post
caveman

24-4-2014 10:00
Frequency sex with SO per month

So I've been on the site a while and enjoy punting and wondered whether it was to make up for my own sad sex life back at home with SO. My SO since getting married... actually since day one she has never been into sex. She now quotes to me statistics from internet that its normal for married couples only to do it a couple times a month. I get lucky once a month, or twice if really lucky, even then its starfish time usually. I'm a healthy, athletic, successful early 30s guy, and feel like its not right, but what can you do if you love your SO can't just break up because sex is lacking when there are so many other aspects of relationship that are great! She thinks I'm addicted to porn and that I'm too demanding wanting sex more, saying there's more to life than sex. She does enjoy it, but just not have much of a drive.

So this has been getting me depressed I think and affecting our relationship I think... so got me thinking... am I unreasonable? Am I normal?  what does everyone else do?

So here's the survey to find out!  

Thanks

[ Last edited by  caveman at 24-4-2014 10:04 ]

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Jack_Sparrow 27-10-2015 08:47 Acceptance +1 same same


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